Can someone help me with my airport extreme?

Have you unplugged and restarted both your modem and the Airport? That usually does the trick for me.

Otherwise, your Mac should have the Airport software in your Applications folder, from which you can change your settings and reset the device.

I tried reseting

Its not picking up airport extreme

Try looking on the Airport Support page… it will tell you what the different lights mean and how to check your settings.

im doing the unplug thing for 5 minutes now

Still didnt work

Is it possible that the Airport Extreme was damaged by a power surge?

Can your computer see the Airport Extreme if you connect it with a cable?

I restarted it with that little button on the back,opened te software to make sure its connected but i cant update it