The point is that people have lapses in judgement all the time, but most of the time what goes wrong can be fixed with an apology or insurance.
For the most part, mishaps are the last thing we intend. Even when we are undertaking something that we know to be risky, our attention is on achieving a successful outcome, not on pondering the worst possible thing that could go wrong.
Most of the time we are reasonable and prudent. Nonetheless, there are still things we do every day that slightly increase the risks we expose ourselves and others to. For the most part, we rely on the law to paint a bright line around the risks we have collectively decided are too dangerous to be left to chance. So, when people drive while drunk, or speed through construction zones, we punish them even when they don’t hurt anybody, and even more severely when they do.
However, there are lots of risks that aren’t so well marked. In some cases, like texting while driving (which is only illegal in some states), everyone seems to instinctively regard the risk as unacceptably high, even though the actual probability of a fatal mishap is on the order of 1 in 14 million, or about the same as winning the state lottery. On the other hand, driving faster than 55 MPH is roughly three times more dangerous, yet people widely ignored the 55 MPH speed limit when it was in effect.
As a society, we are growing older; and as we do so, we are growing more risk adverse. One of the consequences of this trend is that we are becoming more punitive toward people we perceive as endangering others by putting them at increased risk.
The problem is, we are not using science to determine what is risky and then use public policy to draw a bright line around the problem. Instead, we wait until there is a mishap; and then, in 20/20 hindsight, we determine fault; and then in the heat of emotion, we rain down the full force and fury of our indignation on the person who was at fault.
@MissAusten,
In the example of the boy spinning like a ninja, this is something the boy knows is risky but not forbidden. So, we only punish him when he spills his milk. Only, in the real world, the punishment is not “lost desert”; we completely destroy the person’s life, and him along with it. Suppose, your son was spinning like a ninja but, by some freak accident, managed to kill his brother. What then, would you turn him over to the state to be tried for manslaughter because of his foolishness?
@daloon
Just a few days ago you were saying that if you take a life, you should have to pay. Equal misery for equal misery.
@harp
I agree with you, if people are not deterred by putting their own life at risk, how can you expect them to be deterred by a long prison sentence. In the conversations I’ve been having lately (mostly trying to talk down people recommending more severe punishments for incidents of this kind) people seem to have no sympathy and indeed quite a bit of vengeful bile toward “stupid people” who endanger others with lapses of judgement that are ordinarily benign, except in those few instances where someone gets hurt or killed.
@Triiple
The victim’s family may wish to see you tried for murder. In the example you mentioned, there is no real fault. He could have been sitting in the next room when the shot went off; it was only chance that he was close by. It is very difficult for people to accept that “shit happens.” If there was any foreseeable risk at all, no matter how slight that you could have avoided, very likely you would be charged with manslaughter, and you would be facing prison.