What does it mean when a guy sends you a song?

Sounds like what you considered to be merely “friends with benefits,” he considered something more. Maybe the song just reminded him of you, and the time you guys used to spend together. Maybe he really wanted something more from your relationship, but knew you weren’t interested.

Have you asked him what he meant by sending the song?

it sounds like he really misses you, and like poser said it seems like you two maybe weren’t completely clear on what your relationship was, or at least on what you each wanted. Sometimes it is hard to realize what you have or how good you have it until it is gone, which is probably what he is going through right now. I know that feeling all too well, and its actually very hard to do something like he did. also, it is very easy when there are problems in a current relationship to get caught up in a past relationship and sometimes it get a little far, and something like this could happen. In any case I’m sure he didn’t mean anything negative by it, and again like poser said, your best bet is to ask him about it, but do not make it a confrontation, if you do it will be hard to get a straight answer and will make him feel bad (unless you want to make him feel bad, but i wouldnt see why)

I don’t know what the song sounds like but looking at the lyrics it sounds like he wants you to know that 5 months had a forever memorable result. And he’ll never forget the memories of the time spent together. I wouldn’t assume he’s looking to reconect though it’s possible. Somtimes memories remain priceless but when we try to get back to the way we were it often just messes them up.
If your looking for a way to respond be honest about how you feel about the memories. Don’t worry about letting him down or expecting to recreate the past. The freedom of what you two shared can not become permanent but it could become something different. Evaluate whether those memories are worth risking for something other than bliss. I you think you want something more it may be there so give it a chance but move slow. Otherwise enjoy the memories and know that somewhere out there you have touch a life forever in a memorable way.

If it were me, the gesture would be a cross between a feeler and (for obvious lack of a better term) a death rattle. If he’s still in his other relationship, he may feel less than 100% with it and he’s grasping at (the memory) of you because the good memories of you are surfacing. In the same vein, he’s probably wondering if you’re still game. Even if nothing comes of it, he probably is seeking a “hit” from you that you’d still be into him and that things could start up again given time and place.

I would treat it as an opportunity to either close the door or flirt a little bit to let him know you’d still be into him someday down the road.

He’s missing the “benefits” :-)

What, no cake?

@breedmitch – lol, good thinking :-)

Men(boys) sending a love song to a girl, on the internet, is like sending her a written love letter in the mail.

Do you get the hint????