How do you know if a boy likes you?
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May 11th, 2009
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If you’re in grade school, he most likely pulls on your pigtails or puts a frog in your lunch.
However, in a more mature world, I hope he’d say something along the lines of “You seem really nice. Wanna grab a burito?” – and you’re off to the races.
In between those two examples is a whole host of other behaviour that mostly qualifies as bullshit.
Wait for the guy who can articulate his intentions or (better yet) take the bull by the horns and do your own articulating. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
When a boy likes me, he says “Grandma, lets go to the park” or “Can you drive me to the mall?”
I suspect in your case it would be when he wants to spend time with you.
He finds time and ways to be seen by you to catch your eye or to smile and you.
The easiest way is to ask him straight out, preferably just the two of you in a conversation, not around his friends.
Generally speaking, signs that someone likes you include: them wanting to be around you all the time, them touching you purposely (this is seen more in women liking men), them laughing at all your jokes, them wanting to go out sometime for coffee/burrito/whatever.
Don’t let these others snow you. It is really very hard to know. However, I run a ten week course at Daloon’s Relationship School that is devoted to this very topic. Since you’re from fluther, I can give you a special deal.
he will try to make eye contact with you. If you like him back, keep that eye contact for at least a couple seconds and smile. If he blushes he might like you, if he smiles back he might like you. Wave and SMILE when you see him. His reaction would be coming over to talk to you or smiling back if he likes you. But remember, dont change yourself for anyone. If this boy likes you he likes you for who you are.
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