What limits are there to your friendship?

Other than violating my morals, there are no limits.

Well that depends on the friend of course. They aren’t all on equal footing.

I’m not sure. Nobody’s found it yet. I suspect if they do, it’ll have something to do with legality.

I’m flattered that you came to me for help, but I won’t help you hide the body.

They didn’t hear it from me. Good luck.

A few people have my apartment key. They cannot come in, unless it’s an emergency, without letting me know first. I have a friend’s key and she has a total open-door policy. Invading my me-time is one my limits on friendship.

I don’t break laws or clean up huge amounts of blood. I also never lend large amounts of money unless we make a signed and witnessed written agreement about paying it back.

If a friend becomes so negative or self destructive they begin to drain or damage me then I cut them loose to the acquaintance stage. Love and patience don’t give me the superpowers to save anyone, I tried that before.

Don’t fuck me over.

I couldn’t sustain a friendship with a person who lied to me or betrayed my trust, nor with a person who made excessive demands, who made false accusations, or who exhibited rigid, intolerant, judgmental thinking.