Some of your assumptions are incorrect. In the last few months my husband had a rash, and I said, “I don’t know what that is, I think you need to see a dermatologist,” and his father had what seemed like cysts to me near his jaw and I said, “I’m not sure, I would get that checked by a doctor,” and a girlfriend of mine is having excessive bleeding and I said, ” could be your fibroids, or hormonal, but I would definetly get it checked by a doctor .” I don’t think I know MORE than doctors. I really value the amount of time it takes to become a doctor, and the knowledge they have. My examples are about doctors who have not done their job well. I think my friend went to primary care first, personally I think they should be able to diagnose warts, but lets say that you are right and my expectation is improper. Obviously, the doctor himself felt confident he could diagnose the problem, because he went ahead and prescribed medicine for the patient. Shouldn’t he say, “I’m not sure, I think we should refer you to a specialist.” Part of good medicine is saying I don’t know. This has happened to me twice, and I was grateful the doctor said it.
I admit I have baggage from a very bad chronic illness. But, your idealism about doctors is very interesting to me. I have example after example of doctors not listening to pts, but most of the time the pts concern may not go along with the standard of care or offical information that is out there in the medical establishment so I guess you cannot fault the doctor. I hope in the future I can be less emotional about medical care, I strive for that, so your comments are welcome, even if we are fighting :) JK.
House is an extreme example of rare, or complicated diseases and syndromes.
I realized I spelled Podiatrist wrong, but it was too late to edit, you will see my first post I spelled it correctly, but thank you.
Here is are just 4 examples of things that have happened in my close circle, feel free to skip reading this if you are not interested in examples.
-My mom needs a colonscopy and last time her blood pressure was uncontrollable afterwards for a couple of days. Of course she told her doctor, but it was dismissed. We talked about it and I hypothesized it might have something to do with the electrolytes in the prep, and in fact there are warnings on the prep for her type of blood pressure medication. We looked up alternative preps…she is going to call the doctor to see if that might work for her, but I think he should be concerned about her concerns, and know if she falls under the warnings on a drug he precribes every day.
- My father had Propulsid and Sporonox prescribed at the same time years ago by the same doctor and the pharmacy filled it. That is a black box warning. The only reason I knew was because I had helped my friend study a little before her sales training with Janssen pharmaceutical. That doctor probably prescribe those drugs all of the time, he should know the black box warnings. And wtf are these pharm reps talking about when they are at the docs office?? Both drugs were Janssen.
-My girlfriend asked her doctor on two different occasions if her sons asthma medication might be stunting his growh. The doctor was sure the answer was not. My girlfriend and her husband did not even think the asthma medication was necessary for their son, so finally, they decided to take him off it on their own. Turns out he didn’t need the med, he started growing within weeks, and now there is new information about this med possibly stunting growth. The doctor didn’t know, so I don’t fault him, but don’t be dismissive, or maybe try a different med. Maybe know that sometimes science doesn’t know the answer yet.
-I complained for years that I felt like my heart was stopping for brief moments late at night when I was resting or sleeping, and sometimes I woke short of breath and like I am going to wake up dead one day. They did an ekg in the office at my GP, and he said I was fine. One day at a GYN apptmnt I told my doctor, because he was listening to my heart, and he said, “I think you should see a cardiologist.” I did, and my heart does miss beats, and at night my heart rate went down to 48. Wound up to be benign, but at least I now feel like it was addressed and I don’t worry about it. I think my primary doc should have told me to go to a cardilogist rather than telling me I am fine, I knew SOMETHING was going on. I was not diagnosing myself, I just wanted an explanation. I was not a hypochondric about it, I did not go running from doctor to doctor, rather I just mentioned it at a regular apptmnt and relied on my doctor, and honestly I felt like if I went to a cardioligist I would seem paranoid, hypochondriacal, and questioning.
I could go on and on. I believe doctors make many many many more right decisions and diagnioses than wrong ones, but as a patient I think you need to be educated.