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marinelife's avatar

Would you mention this issue to this person?

Asked by marinelife (62485points) July 17th, 2009

Someone I used to work with just added me as a friend on Facebook.

He’s an older guy and sort of trusting.

I was amazed he had published his entire birthdate. Isn’t that an invitation to identity theft?

Should I say something or is it none of my beeswax?

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Allie's avatar

Mention this article that you saw. Ask him if he knows about it.

Btw, I got the link from Shilolo. So, credit where credit is due.

aiwendil's avatar

That is a little worrying. Is there a way you would bring up the subject casually?
“I noticed your birthday is the same day as my sister’s, but she’s 5 years younger. I saw it on Facebook, actually. Do you reckon it’s safe to have birthdates written down in a public site? I once read that… etc.” And like Allie mentioned… there are numerous other articles out there.

marinelife's avatar

@Allie Thanks. He loves tech stuff. I can just send him the article.

@shilolo Thanks in absentia.

ABoyNamedBoobs03's avatar

I put my bank accounts and social security on my facebook and twitter, haven’t had an issue yet… of course it helps to have shitty credit in the first place I suppose…

casheroo's avatar

Weird, pretty much everyone I know on Facebook had their birthdays on there…because it tells me their age and the birth date. I guess I’ll check out that article, but I don’t see what the problem is.

aiwendil's avatar

@casheroo- I just keep the month and date on facebook. The year I keep private.

Jeruba's avatar

Why not just be direct? “I’m a little worried at seeing your full date of birth posted on Facebook. That could compromise the security of your personal information. Just wanted to let you know I’m concerned.”

skfinkel's avatar

I don’t see the problem of just mentioning it directly—although it does seem like everyone on facebook puts their birthdays.

jbfletcherfan's avatar

Me, too, I just have the month & date. No year.

TheHaight's avatar

I feel quite idiotic.
I had no idea leaving your birthdate could be so…scary. And I do it a lot! twitter, tumblr, myspace, facebook! ahh!

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casheroo's avatar

I think the fact that it tells me everyones ages mean I can figure out which year they were born in, and only some don’t tell me their age (under the birthdays in events) I never realized so much could be figured out from a birth date.

jbfletcherfan's avatar

@casheroo yeah, it’s scary, isn;t it? Some people are just too smart for their own good & use it for nefarious purposes.

filmfann's avatar

I had almost $10,000 stolen due to identity theft. The thief worked at Bank of America, and had all the information from my mom’s account.

La_chica_gomela's avatar

I agree that it probably is an invitation. When I call my bank, all I need to know to get into the system is my bank card number and my birthdate. Just saying. I would probably mention it. I guess it depends on how close you are. Sending him the article sounds like a good plan. @Allie + Shilolo for the win.

marinelife's avatar

@aiwendil Thank you for the suggested wording. I used a version of that in my email to him.

aiwendil's avatar

@Marina- You’re welcome. I’m glad to be useful. :D

hearkat's avatar

The privacy setting allow you to control who sees what on our profiles. Perhaps he only lets people he trusts closely that already know the information to see it. I know mist if my co-workers’ birthdays, and I can guess the year because I know how old they are.

Even here on Fluther, many of us have mentioned our ages and birthdays… I guess that’s one instance where not having time stamps on answers is a benefit!

marinelife's avatar

Update: He says he knows the risk, but is OK with it. Shrug.

captainshalfunit's avatar

The privacy settings on FB allow you whether to show your b-day, no b-day or b-day/year. Usually you can tell by their pictures or by their friends. I personally add 10 years to the year I was actually born, for kicks and giggles, and HOPEFULLY, people will say “hey, she looks great for her age!” Notice I said HOPEFULLY!

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