I have found that life tends to be made up of a series of low points. When my meds are working, then I can also see that there are high points in between and some flat bits, too.
My first really low point was when I graduated from college with a shiny new degree in Biology only to discover that I was over-qualified for the jobs that I could be interviewed for and under-qualified for the jobs I wanted. That’s when I first found out I suffered from depression.
Next was in graduate school, when I was having health issues, plus being harassed verbally by my major professor and sexually by one of his other students, and I just wanted to be somewhere else.
The next really low point was the first time my husband was hospitalized. He went for a check up and stayed for 12 weeks. I was working full time and had a 6 month-old and a 2½ year old, and no one would tell me what his prognosis was.
But then, a few years later, during the period that my grandmother died, our neighbor died, a friend died, our cat died, our car died, and we had to foreclose on a house we thought we had sold safely, he had heart problems and ended up with a quintuple bypass and complications, followed by the time his gall bladder exploded the same week my children’s godmother fell down the stairs at home and wasn’t found for three days. That time the docs told me he had a 10% chance of making it and asked if I had a black dress.
Then there was the time he fell while we were out of town avoiding Hurricane Rita, ended up in the hospital for ten days, and we discovered he had been having small strokes. He was also sent home incontinent but no one bothered to tell me. I just figured it out the hard way.
However, right now I am definitely at a very low point.
The IRS says they lost two of my returns and my son killed the hard drive they were on so I am having to recreate them.
The school principal that hates me and firmly believes no child suffers from mental illness sicced CPS first on the one teacher that was helping my son, and then on me, which then brought APS into the picture, so now my son has a record of elder abuse. Both the teacher and I are in the process separately of suing the school district as well.
My son’s meds may not be working or it could be he is just being a teenager. In any case, he is very unpleasant to be around.
My husband’s kidneys are failing, plus he fell last week. He let EMS examine him but refused to go to the doctor.
I had to put my favorite cat to sleep because his gallbladder was blocked.
My son told our powers that be that we have too many animals so I am having to find new homes for them (this is difficult because a) most of them are elderly, b) my son is the one who has brought most of them home and insisted we keep them, and c) they are the only critters in our house who seem to like me).
My father is losing his vision, my mother is declining rapidly from Parkinson’s and they will be moving near me sometime in the next six months.
And my daughter is gone for a full month at camp.
On top of that, my meds aren’t working but I can’t get in to see my doctor until next week (I made the appointment 2 weeks ago) because we go to the local base and all the docs have been shipped off to the Middle East or to Norfolk (BRAC is still going on).
However, the truck is running okay (knock on wood), and my husband’s nephrologist just opened a brand new dialysis center about 5 blocks from our house. I also understand that our governor just passed a state law that disabled military vets can get their property taxes waived (now I have to find out how to do that). If so we will be able to pay for the dialysis my husband will soon be needing.
I am sure things will get better somehow, but I am not certain how yet.
“That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” – Friedrich Nietzsche