@MrItty I was in and out of high school due to abuse. I was in school, then wasn’t able to fully be there because I was taken out of custody of my Mom and lived an hour away, then I went back to live with her. She put me in an outpatient program in a mental hospital because she said I was too much to handle, when in fact the therapists said there was nothing wrong with me, and there was something wrong with her. When I was in school, I got good grades, when I wasn’t in school, I didn’t do great at all. Was a member of Select Choir, Drama Club, and did stats for Track (I received a Varsity Letter for Management). While I didn’t graduate in June of 07, when everyone else in my class did. I worked on it and ended up getting my Diploma that winter (via Penn Foster).
I was sheltered until a month or so before I turned 18. Then I moved out. Could I have turned out a lot worse because of the horrible things I went through? Absolutely. Have I had help from my family along the way? Probably ONCE. Have I done everything I could to provide for myself? Most definitely. Am I working as hard as possible to get my degree, keep a roof over mine and my boyfriends head? You better believe it. Do I have enough money to do anything else, other than pay bills and buy food? Nope. And I’m lucky enough to even to that.
I applied at many colleges, and got in to some, because of the fluctuation of my grades.. Being in and out of school so much.
I am currently enrolled at ACC in Denver, doing a 60+60 program to get my Bachelors in Communications/Business. I will do two years here, then two in a bigger school. From that I can do Public Relations, mostly anything in the media field, journalism, start my own business, etc. I can get internships with many businesses if I so wish because of my field and my proximity to downtown Denver.
I haven’t taken any courses yet, this is my first semester. Right out of high school I moved around a lot, trying to clear my head and bounce back from all that had happened during the years. But this semester I’m talking Interpersonal Communications, Spanish, English Comp and Psych.
I currently check job sites, as well as craigslist jobs daily, and apply, follow up, etc. Mostly every place I have tried has said they chose someone else because of experience. While I don’t have much, I have worked in retail, in a law firm, and another restaurant. All cut short (except the law firm) thanks to my mother refusing to take me to work, or even let me go to work for that matter.
Luckily for me, I don’t need loans, I have enough grants to cover my tuition.