How do you get back your ex-girlfriend if she left you?

If a girl leaves/broke up you; don’t waste your time and find another girl. The chances of she getting back with you issssss probably never unless you become a millionaire or something on the line.

well, why did she break up with you?

Depends on the circumstances of the break up. Was it mutual? Did someone do something to hurt the other one? cheat, lie? There are a lot of factors to this – it’s hard to answer without details. Also, how old are you guys? She may just want freedom, if she is younger and not really be ready for a relationship.

@MrGeneVan – Not always true. When I was dating my (now) husband, I broke things off. About a month or so later, we started to see each other, again. Basically, I got scared. I wasn’t 100% sure I was ready to be in the relationship and ready to introduce a man to my daughter. We’re happily married, now.

Tell her you’re still in love with her. Or if you think she’s skittish, start more slowly – tell her you miss her and you’re not ready to let her go, even if you thought you were 2 weeks ago. It might work, it might not, but the best way to go is to tell her how you feel.

Ignore her. Best advice! Either way you will be happy.

tie her up and bring her back.

I really don’t think this is a great question to ask. None of us know you, your relationship or any of the circumstances that led to your eventual break up, so we can’t accurately give you the best advice on something as important as your love life. Take some time alone, figure out if you really want her back or you just aren’t used to her not being around, there’s a big difference and before you need to find which one it is before you make any choice may regret.

Find out why she broke up with her. Fix that, demonstrate that you have changed it and improved in other ways too, in a non-stalker way. And then maybe she will want to get back together with you. Its not a movie, you cant do something out of this world to show her that you love her and that’ll be enough. If she knew you loved her and she dumped you, then thats not going to matter to her. You have to show her that youre a better person now, and perhaps.

I’m being serious when I say this: have fun. The second she sees you having fun, hanging out with other girls, going to parties, etc she will get jealous and want you back. That said your relationship won’t be the same and will likely go sour faster than it did previously, so you best bet is to move on. Life is much too short to be wasted on relationship drama live your life, have fun and one day you will cross paths with someone who is truly life changing.

Try to analyze why she broke up with you and if it is something that you have control over and can change then go ahead and change it.

There must be a reason why you guys broke up. Was it a mutual decision? If yes, then why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you anymore? It’s just been 2 weeks since you guys broke up. Give yourself some time to process what happened. Give her time to reassess her feelings. Think about why you went separate ways. Is it about something petty or were you incompatible and this break up seemed inevitable? If you were to reconcile, would the reason for breaking up not be a factor to break up again? If you don’t hear from her soon, maybe it’s best to let go and move on.

Here.

I didn’t tell you anything, i don’t know you.

Sing her a love song.

@GloriaWhite welcome to fluther. Lurve.

From my experience, it’s not worth repeating the past.

@superandy_07 welcome to fluther. Lurve.

Wait, i just realized you want to “get her back” and not to “get back AT her”. D’oh!