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Facade's avatar

What do you think of having sex in public places?

Asked by Facade (22937points) July 30th, 2009

Would you do it?
Have you done it?
Have you been caught? Arrested?

Do tell =)

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casheroo's avatar

I would do it. I have done it. And nope, never been caught.

jbfletcherfan's avatar

I think it’s ridiculous. I guess people do it for the thrill of it. But it’s not a spectator sport, it’s a participant sport. Go home…get a room…go somewhere private.

Allie's avatar

I’ve done it. I’d probably do it again.
Just don’t do it where there are a ton of people around. Find a semi-private place.

Edit: Just saw the last part of the question. No, I wasn’t caught.

whatthefluther's avatar

The idea is to do it right under someone’s nose and not get caught

sandystrachan's avatar

I think it’s ok , i have had sex in public wasn’t caught :( . I think part of the excitment is knowing you could get caught at anytime .

photographcrash's avatar

Been there, done that, been caught. At my college, by a security officer. It was exciting up until that..

BBSDTfamily's avatar

Yes
Yes
Yes, No

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

I have done it, will continue to do it and have once been caught in the car on the beach by a flashlight tap on the window- don’t want to do that part again. Another time I was kinda caught because a helicopter shone it’s spotlight down on a rooftop but no one came to arrest us.

marinelife's avatar

I have done it. More than once. It certainly adds spice. I was caught once in a park.

Jude's avatar

Yes, and I have done it (movie theatre, park, restroom). No, we didn’t get caught.

sccrowell's avatar

I might regret saying this, but…
Yes! I have done it.
In a park!
No, never was caught (by the BPD) but the high school on the other side of the parks lunch bell rang just as things got rather intense, thank gosh for skorts!

Bluefreedom's avatar

I have done it and I haven’t been caught…..yet.

sccrowell's avatar

Seems like the Parks the happening place!

sandystrachan's avatar

Beside a main road , cycle path and next to a busy horse riding school think i should visit the park now :)
Was in a car park once and the police drove by , they didn’t see tho blind piggies .

Lightlyseared's avatar

Yes, yes (in one of the royal parks), no

knitfroggy's avatar

I’ve never done it in public-it would traumatize people!

Facade's avatar

Anyone done it in a parking garage? teehee

aprilsimnel's avatar

No, I’ve never done that. I’m not sure that I would.

Allie's avatar

@Facade Damn, talk about echos.

Facade's avatar

@Allie I like the echos. And you can always muffle the noisy person or tell them to shut up…heh

JLeslie's avatar

I’ve done it, when I was young, wouldn’t do it again in a place I could easily get caught. Might do it in a remote place though.

whatthefluther's avatar

@Facade…Parking garages don’t tend to be too inviting (I picture drunks and homeless using as a toilet facility).

Facade's avatar

@whatthefluther I haven’t encountered that problem

jbfletcherfan's avatar

@hungryhungryhortence ah, wait a minute, yes I have. You just reminded me, LOL. In a parked car by the police! Was stark naked, we were. Didn’t even know anyone was around until lights were flashing in the car & he was tapping on the window with his flashlight & his hand was on his weapon.

whatthefluther's avatar

@Facade….Maybe it’s just an L.A. phenomenon!

jeanna's avatar

I’ve done it a lot and I love it. I’d like to do it again and again. I have been caught a few times, but it hasn’t stopped me.

fireinthepriory's avatar

I don’t think I ever would, but not for the normal reasons… I just tend to be loud and have trouble not being loud and I’m way too afraid it’d be extremely apparent!

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

I vote this the fun question of the day!!! tee hee hee
Parking garages are fun too

whatthefluther's avatar

Go to a very busy stairwell. The top landing usually leads to a locked door accessing the roof (the door will likely have emergency crash out hardware). This landing is rarely visited by anyone but maintenance or security personnel. It’s a rush hearing people enter and exit the stairwell a mere feet away from the action!

Facade's avatar

@whatthefluther If I can remember correctly, we’ve done that :)

whatthefluther's avatar

@Facade…If like me, your man had been hitting the Silver Patron, I believe we have had a parallel event!
Ooops, here comes security….....

Bluefreedom's avatar

You’re all very naughty! I just wanted you to know that! >:-)

And I love knowing your intimate secrets.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@Bluefreedom: do you recall when the huge cranes were down off of Mill Ave’s parking lot on 6th street? $100.00 to the guy posted to sit in the mobile trailer bought a sneak onto it ;p

Facade's avatar

@whatthefluther Nah, we were sober

Bluefreedom's avatar

@hungryhungryhortence. I never heard anything about that. Strange.

jbfletcherfan's avatar

@Bluefreedom If you think we’re all so naughty, then why are you here reading this question? Hmmmm….? LOLLLLLLL

asmonet's avatar

Please keep the semen off the park benches.

As long as I don’t have to come in contact with the byproducts, I don’t care who screws what, where or how.

And no, I haven’t, to any of those questions.

Bluefreedom's avatar

@jbfletcherfan. I’m not only reading, I’m a contributor too. I can be as dirty as the next person as long as the sex is good. =)

cak's avatar

@facade – I’ve done it on the top floor of a parking garage. this is a fun question.

Facade's avatar

@cak In a car or no?

seekingwolf's avatar

I would never done it and I haven’t done it.

Sex in public (as well as other overt sexual things) is quite rude. People feel uncomfortable when they see it and they shouldn’t have to be forced to see you guys bump nasties…it’s just inconsiderate and I wouldn’t do it.

Well, that’s just me. I’m pretty anti-PDA. The most I’ve done in public is hold hands and hug. Even kissing my groom at the wedding would be absurdly uncomfortable for me.

whatthefluther's avatar

Try a motorcycle (must have center stand and remove the sissy bar/backrest)!
my backrest was two wing nuts and gone…had them custom machined!

Facade's avatar

@seekingwolf You’re missing out on all the fun!

cak's avatar

@Facade Who’s to say it wasn’t more than once…and more than once location? ;~)

augustlan's avatar

Yes.
Yes, construction sites at night are pretty good for this type of thing. ;-)
Yes, twice, but it was before anything hot and heavy started. More of a ‘move along’ type of thing.
Never arrested.

jonsblond's avatar

My husband and I at a park on the 4th of July the summer we met. I’ll never forget that night!
Most people were at the fireworks display in town so the park was empty. We made our own fireworks that night. ;)

We were not caught.

DrBill's avatar

St. Petersburg Beach in FL
Never caught

Jeruba's avatar

Did it twice, once under a weeping willow in the Boston Public Garden and once in a little wooded grove near the statue of the Gloucester Fisherman. It was fun. It was naughty. I loved it, and I treasure the memory, right down to the pine needles sticking into my bottom. Almost got caught the first time (“Everything’s fine, thank you, officer. Good night.”), but didn’t.

Facade's avatar

@Jeruba “Everything’s fine, thank you, officer. Good night” lol!

Darwin's avatar

I’m with @seekingwolf – I prefer privacy and comfort to risk and sand in everything.

dannyc's avatar

I think it sounds risky but fun, like life itself.

jonsblond's avatar

@Darwin sand in everything is definitely not fun. The movies make it look glamorous but it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.

augustlan's avatar

Sex in the pool isn’t so great, either. :(

jonsblond's avatar

@augustlan Water period. I tried it in a lake once. keyword- tried

rooeytoo's avatar

All I’m saying is watch out for snakes and I don’t mean the trouser kind!!!

jeanna's avatar

@augustlan @jonsblond I actually love sex in the water! Especially pools. I tried the ocean once; never again. Hot tubs are fun, too.

Hambayuti's avatar

=[ I’d like to answer this but it will jeopardize my reply on this game.

softtop67's avatar

Absolutely would do it and have many times. Never been caught but have done restaurant rest rooms, stairs, parks, pools, classoom buildings in college, night clubs…gee so many times I forget them all

Disc2021's avatar

Closest I’ve been is probably skinny dipping, that’s not really “public” though.

I guess it could be fun, but getting caught definitely would not be. Don’t know how much I’d risk for it.

shipwrecks's avatar

I’ve done it.
I would do it again.
Never been caught.
Done it on the beach, in a car, in a public bathroom, in a park (a man jogged by quite a few times lol), a parking lot, on the side of a road (in my car), in a lecture hall at my college, in the library of my college…I could go on but I won’t. lol

Darwin's avatar

Sometimes I think it is a bit like the rule in school – if you can’t bring enough cookies to share with everyone, then don’t bring any at all.

If you are going to do things in public, you need to share.

Facade's avatar

@Darwin Share what, exactly?

Darwin's avatar

Share the love, of course. Or have a 100-some.

Facade's avatar

ohhh. ORGYYYY!! haha

mattbrowne's avatar

Even during the Woodstock festival most folks were looking for hiding places behind the bushes. It’s more natural to enjoy it in private.

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