How do I know when a guy likes a girl?
What signs should I look for to see if my best friend has feelings for me, or if he’s just being a flirt?
He usually flirts with every girl he knows, but lately it’s just been me. He has a girlfriend, though. So I don’t konw if he’s just being a flirt, or if he likes me.
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How much time is he wanting to spend with you? If it’s a lot, then he probably has feelings for you.
Does he flirt with other girls?
Well, the only way to REALLY find out is to ask him… but you might want to wait until he’s single to avoid drama. :)
I guess you’ll know when his penis enters your vagina that he likes you, oh no wait, he’s a guy, he might not actually like you, he might just wanna get laid.
Please disregard everything I say
Trying to hold your hand?
Looking for a small details to touch you?
Always smiles when he looks
at you?
Talks to you alot, when there’s other friends there too. But no he chooses you?
Asks you about your personal life?
Tries to kiss you?
But he has a girlfriend, hmmmm…
Say to him, “I have gotten some vibes that you may like me. If you want to be more than friends, you will need to break up with your girl before we can go out or hang out that way.
I like you, but one of the reasons is because I think of you as an honorable guy.”
One caveat: Can you handle it if you are in the girlfriend slot, and he is flirting with others? Flirts usually don’t change their stripes. (Apologies to Evelyn’s Pet Zebra).
normally, when I like a girl, the frequency of talking to one another increases quite a bit, normally phone calls, texts during the day, talking online, etc.
Also, get togethers with friends I tend to want to be near the person of interest, talking to and directing conversation towards that person.
Things like that I suppose…which can sometimes be rather subtle. Hope it helps.
I agree with @Tink1113!!! Would he rather hang with you other than his friends?
Does he blush when he smiles or talks to you?
Does he say something stupid sometimes?
He might like you and his gf too but maybe he might like you better depending on what he does :)
Since he has a gf, look for comments such as, “if I didn’t have a gf…”
If he stares at you and when asked why says he didn’t realize he was doing it. Or if he replies with something romantic or very flattering. And check for “that look” in his eyes when they make contact with yours. “That look” you only give people when you really feel something.
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