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When sexually fantasizing, do you indulge yourself mostly with pop culture icons or people you have actually known?

Asked by RealEyesRealizeRealLies (30960points) August 9th, 2009

I must admit to having a fancy for vintage nude Stephanie Seymour in the earliest days of her career.
http://www.millioncelebs.com/fcv/stephanie-seymour/stephanie-seymour-16.jpg

But there’s also a little hotty working at the pool hall with “I’m yours” written all over her body.

Decisions decisions… I just can’t make up my mind.

Where do your fantasies originate from, the available, or the unavailable?

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johnny0313x's avatar

britney spears :) i no most wont agree

johnny0313x's avatar

you should totally put a precaution on the nudity of that picture…

ekans's avatar

According to the interpersonal attraction subfield of social psychology, three of the main factors involved in interpersonal attraction are physical attraction, similarity, and proximity.
So, basically, you are attracted to those around you.Provided they are suitably physically attractive and similar to you.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

I can’t get excited or “off” unless I fantasize about someone I actually know.

elijah's avatar

Sometimes famous people, sometimes people I actually know, but mostly random anonymous people I make up. I just imagine my own people.

aronnax's avatar

There is something truly bold about your willingness to tell people about your sexual fetishes. God bless the anonymous veil of the internet.

whatthefluther's avatar

@sccrowell satisfies my every want and desire in reality as well as in my dreams. I might recommend you give her…....scratch that!

mrentropy's avatar

Generally, I think about me.

dynamicduo's avatar

My fantasies stem from the deepest parts of my mind. They never involve people I know or have heard of, although they do tend to be characters who reoccur in different fantasies.

evelyns_pet_zebra's avatar

well, it varies since I have different tastes for different things. My wife’s Freshmen magazine usually has a couple of images every month that are quite helpful, and that image you linked of Stephanie Seymour has some very good fuel for the ol’ pocket rocket.

ShanEnri's avatar

I would say the unavailable since they are figments of my imagination!

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I think about people I’ve seen in porn, my partner with other people, people I know, me with other people

Quagmire's avatar

Only women I know or have known. Always.

Quagmire's avatar

Pictures of icons and models may “put me in the mood” but ultimately I’ll fantasize about someone I know who resembles the woman in the picture.

FB's avatar

Neither. Sorry. I know the question was asked and clearly offered two tantalizing choices to consider. As typical, I usually choose to respond to questions when they move me in a direction where I find myself inspired to share a thought, or spin a tale. You decide which. However, mercifully, I’ll try to apply some economy to this one.

Individuals I truly know nothing about inspire the most delicious fantasies. Mysterious. Undiscovered. Unknown. Captured by my mind, forever. Unexpected events, which yield surprising possibilities, are by far the richest places to go looking when you delve deep to initiate a sexual session within your mind. Just think about a brief casual observance you make of someone you pass on the street – eyes meet, eyes avert, either could work. A person you catch a glimpse of as the elevator door closes, separating you from them. Forever? Across a crowded room, which annoyingly, you are never able to find your way gracefully across. There they are, glistening before you for that fleeting moment. The hair, the clothes, the face, the body, the gestures, the aromas, the sounds, the lighting, the aura, and yes, the elements of a scenario… Like being an Indy film director gathering reels of footage on location. You then take all of those harmless voyeuristic images and emotions home and then, begin to wonder . . . See where it leads you. Edit your movie in the non-linear production suite of your brain, and change the ending, the beginning, and yes, even elongate the middle, if that becomes your wish.

Facade's avatar

If I “fantasize” about having sex, it’s with my babe.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

@ABoyNamedBoobs03

OK let’s make a deal. You know, an old fashioned Man Pact…

You keep your fantasies away from Stephanie, and I’ll gladly leave you alone with Angelina.

Deal?

ABoyNamedBoobs03's avatar

I can live with that.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

I hope I can because Angie’s lookin goooooooood!

Quagmire's avatar

What I’d like to know is, HOW are some people getting lurve for their answers and others not? Are there actually BETTER fantasies then others?

shadling21's avatar

Never celebrities. But I avoid fantasizing about people that I know because I don’t want those ideas to affect my relationships with them. You know? So I imagine people similar to them and go from there.

kenmc's avatar

Stephanie>Angelina

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

@boots

And just to let you know. I thought your other answer on that other Q? was the
best.answer.ever.
“Make him a fucking sandwich”

I cannot gather why they pulled that answer. It was perfect!

kenmc's avatar

@RealEyesRealizeRealLies Thanks. I guess some people on here don’t have a sense of humor.

wundayatta's avatar

People I know. Or porn.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@boots however, that joke is so OLD

kenmc's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir I know. It just fit so well that I couldn’t not do it.

lazydaisy's avatar

well… for sure not a bunch of vapid pop culture icons.
although George Clooney does look soooo much better with age.

prude's avatar

more about icons
I want vin diesel and jason statham
oh my that would be incredible!!!

w2pow2's avatar

Hey @RealEyesRealizeRealLies God bless you for that pic. You’re my homeboy now okay!?

Iclamae's avatar

Boys and girls that I know. Celebrities might get me a little turned on but I can’t fantasize or dream about them. Most of them have too much make up anyway (boys and girls)

Jude's avatar

My signif. other. Or, thinking about two dudes together is always fun.

proXXi's avatar

Usually I find celebrities to be too ‘big’ and distracting.

Though there’s something hot to me about those that have ‘fallen’.

I don’t think I’d be able to kick a fat, pregnant, drunk and bald Britney Spears out of my bed….

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