Does it feel as good to say "My wife/husband..." as it does for me to say "My girlfriend..."?
Whenever I say somethng like “My girlfriend has that same phone.” or something, I really take pride in it and it makes me feel good inside.
Is it the same way after you get married?
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Depends How good your relationship is haha.
A condom necklace might be a better indicator that someone wants to be with you.
Condom Necklace? o_0 you have my attention.
zomg I’ll know in 15 days 0_o
Congradulations patg7590 :)
@patg7590 I expect to hear from you on your hunny moon… (Take your laptop/iPhone)
Sure it feels good. We’ve been married for a loooong time & it’s a loving, secure feeling to know that you belong to someone & that someone belongs to you.
“Some one likes me! Look! someone can stand me enough to let me see them naked! hey! pay attentionnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!”
It is way better. I take pride in knowing we made it to that level!
Yes, it is actually much better (and a whole heck of a lot easier than saying my “significant other”). See ya….Gary aka wtf
Put me in the better group. I have had both said, and there is more happiness and satisfaction in saying my husband or hearing him say my wife.
I feel the words “girlfriend” and “boyfriend” are too juvenile and fleeting for my relationship, yet we aren’t married. so I just call him “my babe” to other people.
Calling a person your husband or wife should feel better than boyfriend or girlfriend because of the progression and accomplishment it represents.
When I used to be married, I love saying “my wife”. It’ll be even better!
Congrats!
@Facade You think “my babe” is less juvenile? hehe
I feel pretentious when I say “my husband” all the time. And I hated saying “my fiance.” I just felt it was silly to have to label my significant other, and that label meant the status of my relationship…like it’s anyone elses business.
I do call him my husband, but usually just refer to him by his first name.
Yes. And I think that is one of the main reasons LGBT people want and deserve to marry. I say my wife, though we are not legally married. It still freaks some people out; I can just tell in their faces.
My marriage was a happy one and it was a huge source of joy and pride to acknowledge my husband as my Husband instead of my bf, SO or “friend”.
I can only imagine saying “husband” will feel worlds better than saying “boyfriend”. Because saying “fiance” makes me downright giddy.
The first time I said “My husband..” it felt weird to say it, but a good weird. The more I say it the more proud I am to be able to say My husband.. its a really good feeling. I feel like Im glowing everytime I say it.. and when I hear him say “My wife..” thats the best :)
I am having trouble with not calling my gonna-be ex-wife “babe” and “sweetie”.
It’s odd.
@Bri_L….We are creatures of habit. Distance + time will help curb that habit. See ya….Gary aka wtf
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