What do you consider the difference in making love or just banging?

One happens on a Wednesday and one is banging.

3 or 4 hours.

Probably the most arousing question I’ve heard all day. Probably.

Making love for me is sharing a wonderful experience together. Banging is, as a friend of mine once put it, masturbating using someone else’s body.

@eponymoushipster much lurve for the conchords

@PapaLeo Brilliant. :)

Making love involves an emotional connection. There’s purpose and feelings behind it that are much deeper than just getting off.

Making love is when you’re with someone you love. It’s slow, sweet, gentle, not hurried. The giving & the taking pleasure in all of it. Perfect all around. Bangin’ is just a physical thing. Pretty shallow & meaningless.

I don’t bang my wife. I make humina-humina with her.

“Making love” implies a deeply emotional connection between the participants. If there’s no emotional connection, then it’s just sex.

I think there can be a lot of touching, caressing, etc., in “banging” as well. It’s the emotional aspect that determines if it’s love-making or banging.

We even do the the occasional banging while making sweet love.

Making love, no matter what you are doing has to include passion.

Screwing is… Screwing!

Sometimes even with the partner you love, you just want to get get all crazy and cut loose.
That is also screwing. But usually ends with some passion and some after care.

I don’t really make the distinction when it comes to my man and I. But normally, love-making is done after not seeing each other for months.

It seems that most people agree that making love involves emotion not just physical. I totally agree with that and i also agree that there can be “Sometimes even with the partner you love, you just want to get get all crazy and cut loose.
That is also screwing. But usually ends with some passion and some after care.”

I have on some rare occasions been able to inject emotionless passion into a sexual experience. With the partner agreeing and understanding what it takes to do that.

You know how it feels. Deep inside you when you are both in one ball of “love making”. The motion, the connect, the “passion”. Looking into each others eyes and saying how much you love one another. It is so powerful and deep.

If you can do that, to acquire the feeling but let go of the responsibility of “love”.
You will have emotionless passion.

Of course, you can’t do that with someone you love.

It’s emotional involvement vs. none. atleast that’s how I see it.

Makin’ luuv = Luther Vandross
Bangin’ = Led Zeppelin

I think all loving, happy couples need a little banging now and then. (with each other of course!)

how has no one mentioned this song?

the difference? I’ll cook breakfast in the morning

Sometimes the wife wants romance, and sometimes she just wants sport-fucking.
I try to be there at those times.

The act is just different. Both are passionate, but one is more tender and sensitive.

If there are snuggles involved where you feel the need to just hold that person afterwards then I consider that making love.

@ABoyNamedBoobs03: excellent!

“Makin’ luuv = Luther Vandross”
“Bangin’ = Led Zeppelin”

Makin’ luuv = Led Zeppelin
Bangin’ = Luther Vandross

:-)

@ChazMaz so Luther Vandross=Led Zeppelin?

I think not ;)

I am capable of making love or banging my husband…when banging, it’s more careless, passionate, scratching, call each other names..when making love, it’s the eye lock, neck kisses…

Making love is like when you play her like a Violin or, in my case a Cello, and banging her is like one of those mouth harps

Making love is for people that watch soap operas, banging is for people that don’t know much past penetration, screwing is something that the elderly love to do. I usually have sex, which is the short version of fooling around, and the lazy version of fucking. My favorite though is having a play session, which is something that would scare most normal people. ;)

This is a great question.

Making love means to take ur time and not have only u in mind. It means to have a passion filled time wit a significant other and really feel sumtin more then just wats going on below the waist. I hope that wasn’t tooo detailed..

BANGING is just getting wat u want. no feelings involved.. no jus hit it and quit it. :O