Sadly sometimes people have nothing better to do than harass others. Which is sad and pitiful for sure. But in this day and age it can be scary. The worst part is of course if you put any of the REAL you (like your real name) on the web with your city etc it makes it easier for crazies to find you. And it can be anywhere like even on posts, boards, chat rooms. I cannot BELIEVE some of the info people post. They will post their name, address, phone. Its crazy. Who knows how long info it out there. But I would not believe that most would come to physical contact. The reason so many ENJOY the net is the anonymity. Real life scares them. Otherwise they would be out there in it.
The best course for online harassment is just to DUMP your email etc and get a new one. It is a pain for sure (unless it is a business that involves losing business). But better that than endless annoyances.
As always, here are some links
Feministe – this one has 130 comments!
http://feministe.powweb.com/blog/archives/2007/08/09/what-do-we-do-about-online-harassment/
Recently, several feminist bloggers have had their sites taken down by DoS attacks (including Feministe), and have faced threats of murder and violence. A taste (warning: may trigger):
The Post on Web Harassment
http://www.elainevigneault.com/web-harassment.html
Some tips if you’re being harassed or stalked online:
Keep records. Save their emails, save copies of their websites, save their blog comments. It’s tempting to delete it all and believe me I’ve been there. But you may need it for evidence later. The police, your lawyer, or your tech support might have a good use for it.
Update your software. Keep all your stuff up to date. The out of date software is easier
to break into. Don’t give them the opportunity.
Use strong passwords. Make your blog password something different than your email password. Use lowercase letters, capital letters, numbers, and symbols in every password. Make it difficult for someone to guess.
Ask for help and support. Let others know this is happening. They might offer some resource you didn’t know about. or they might offer a shoulder to cry on. Either way, reach out. You’re NOT alone.
Resources for victims of web harassment:
Halt Abuse Suggested Responses http://www.haltabuse.org/help/respond.shtml
Wired Safety http://wiredsafety.org/
FBI Internet Crime Complaint Form http://www.ic3.gov/complaint/