@avvooooooo cars are dangerous, your dogs are dangerous, a lamp can be dangerous. There are several species of Black Widows, and not all of them are shiny black with a red hourglass on their belly. The male Black Widow has very weak venom, and probably wouldn’t bite you if it could.
My Dad taught me about snakes. He raised rattlers in his garage when he was a young man. Simply because he found them to be fascinating creatures. He taught me to respect all animals, not just the cute ones.
I have never seen a black widow or a brown recluse in my area, even though where I live is in the northern reaches of their range. I have lived in rural as well as city surroundings, and the number of people who claim every brown spider they see is a Brown Recluse and every black shiny spider they see is a Black Widow numbers in the thousands. Doesn’t prove a thing. Usually only an expert can tell if a spider is a Brown Recluse or simply just a brown spider. Has to do with the pattern of their eyes and the microscopic makeup of their sexual organs. I know how to tell a wolf spider from an ordinary brown wood spider, and jumping spiders are easy.
I’ve seenmy fair share of poisonous snakes, like cotton mouths, copperheads, etc, and I never felt the need to kill them. It’s better to simply avoid them, and if you have to, gently coerce them to leave. Snakes go where the food is, if you eliminate the things they eat, they are unlikely to stick around. The yellow banded water snake is pretty darn aggressive, and a lot of people kill them because they think they are venomous. But they are harmless. I’ve been bitten by them several times.(I used to keep them as pets). Hurts like hell, but there is no venom to worry about.
I am more likely to kill a rabbit or a squirrel over a snake, since those are basically rodents and much more destructive than a snake is. rabbits aren’t technically rodents, but they might as well be, the dirty little flea bitten things.
But hey, you kill all the snakes you want. I for one haven’t killed a snake in thirty years. The last one I did kill was an accident, I ran over it with my truck.