Could somebody please help me with this girl?
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September 9th, 2009
Right here goes, theres this girl I know and i really like her, I mean shes like the most beautiful girl i’ve ever seen! But every time we get closer together (become even more friendly), she’ll get a new boyfriend =/, like I spent my whole holidays speaking to her. First thing I know when i get back to school – I find out she’s with someone.
At first I wasnt bothered (still liked her anyway), but last night I was speakin to her on a website. Next thing I know I get a text of her (I didnt even have her number, nor did she have mine), which made me think, is she interested?! Mainly because it came out of the blue and she was asking people for my number. it may sound like nothing, but if you reply with a question on the whole situation, ill answer it most relevant to the situation..! :), please help, would make me happy.
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Instead of asking here for help , why not go direct to the source and ask her ?
You could say something like , : Hey i was wondering if you wouldn’t mind , you know going out with me ? Or something along those words . @zachs94 Hopefully you do not eat my pizza
Yeh, i was totally thinking that, like theres a film she was talkin about at the cinema, its just i wouldnt wanna do that to the guy =/
She is the only one with the answer to your question. You’re probably moving to slow for her. Just ask her out for goodness sake! Shees, I don’t understand ling elaborate mating dances.
Are you sure they are together? When she brings up the movie ask if the guy is taking her to see it. Or just say, “how are things going with so & so?” Do it casually next time you are chatting online.
iPhone won’t let me edit. I meant long, not ling. lol
@Judi Damn those iphones damn them straight to holl <———Hell LULZ
@Supacase , this guy is with her, but like he probz wont do anything with her, go out ect. just is with girls to say he is!
I’d love to ask her out, but it’d mean , the guy hates me (hes an alright dude) and she might even say no :S then its all screwed!
I agree with the consensus. You need to bring up the topic with her. So many relationships never get off the ground because people won’t speak plainly with each other. If she’s still evasive and won’t give you a firm commitment, even for a movie, I would advise letting her go. Girls like that are not worth your time.
@zephyr826 , good advise thanks, im totally gonna be straight and talk to her today about it, ill let you guys know what happens, but for now lets keep the convo/comments comin in =]
@zachs94 Lifes life , if the guy hates you afterwards tough cookies for him . If she doesn’t want you then you can move on , If things get all screwed up thats one of lifes many trials out of the way . Now use your phone and ask her already instead of pissing about on here .
sandy, thanks, im gonna go do it now =], and what do you mean zeph? andone out here actually been in my situation before?
wow…what a great way to ruin the mood and my mentally right now ! her phone is off, haha.
If she’s with someone, you need to respect that.
If you were to pursue her romantically, you’re thinking of your own wants, not hers.
If you respect her, you’ll respect her current relationship.
Wait until she’s not with any other boy, then tell her how you feel about her and ask how she feels about you. This way, you’re going to her with your question, and being mindful of both her, and the other chap.
Maybe she just thinks of you as a good friend? I think you should just talk to her about it. Be blunt and just flat out ask what the deal is. No beating around the bush. It’s the easiest and it’ll save you time.
Watch your mouths.If you show your self in the comfident way,you won her.Remember some rules around.One of them is-let her know to know that you know what you want.If you choose good language to talk in and time and place than she will feel you as good boy of hers.Last thing is smile and eye contact to get her.
Well here’s the news guys, I went with Heretic’s advise and waited for the relationship to end which it did yesterday actually.
So im going to talk to her and ask if she needs anything (be nice), and when she’s back to normal I think im going to ask her out somewhere.
Anyone know good places for teens to go out? Like cinema ect…
The enchanted woods were all the perverts go, you could be fresh bait for them to chase
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