Sex Question (NSFW): How do you help a male partner experience multiple orgasms?

Hire him a harem.

Stop and start just before release. Let him relax a little like Frankie says and then start it up again. He’ll blow like a Blue Whale.

I’m stumbling this thread to my girlfriend.

Tantric sexual practices have a lot of information about this, but that information is hard to sift through online (since there’s a lot of crap online). I recommend getting a book about tantra.

What I remember though is that the man needs to practice breathing techniques and apply pressure (deeply) to the perineum. With practice this can yield a “fluidless” orgasm and thus allow multiple orgasms.

Good luck!

I don’t think it’s up to you. It depends on his capacity. I don’t think very many men have the capability of having multiple orgasms—at least, not all in a row. Usually men take anywhere from five minutes to hours to recover enough to have another one. Anyway, you shouldn’t be asking us. As your bf what he wants, and how he would like to be pleasured.

I would think that just the knowledge that you want to try would be enough. I know it would for me. I’m all like, “just let me get back to you in another few minutes. ” You know?

Men don’t really need to have multiple orgasms. We’re thankful for one.

Generally, a man’s orgasm and his ejaculation are linked, and after he ejaculates his penis becomes incredibly sensitive – so that stimulation is painful rather than pleasant – and he loses his erection. In order for him to have multiple erections, you either have to stimulate him to orgasm in a way that does not involve the penis—such as prostate massage – or you have to decouple the orgasm from the ejaculation, which (as @timothykinney notes) takes a good deal of practice on his part.

So there’s very little you can do unilaterally to cause him to have multiple orgasms—it isn’t just a matter of paying attention to how he responds and keeping it up, as it can be with women—but you can see if he’s interested in working on multiple orgasms with you.

Failing that, just go for extended sessions. He can’t have multiple orgasms in a row, but if you have a long session, there’s no reason he can’t have two or three orgasms over the course of an evening.

@cwilbur
Not always true. With proper training you can sometimes maintain an erection or recover quickly after orgasm. The trick is delay and PC control. not to brag but I can go hours

I thought this just depended on the guy and his ability to experience it. It’s quite fun to watch.

Make him a sandwich.

Wow you have them? And you’re married? Damn.

Eh hem… I mean.. yeah.. everyone is different.. depends on the person. A double is at least 50% mental.

I’m ready to go again almost right away. Well, if I’m really into her. If not I just want to get away, lol. As for consistent orgasimic flow, I don’t think that’s going to happen. I’ve never studied Tantric didn’t have the patients, lol, but I believe it’s prolonging the orgasmic “effect” so to speak. Basically, giving you the longest lasting organism possible, lol. Sounds fun right?

So, if you’re pleased with the sex and try to please him then I’d have to agree with @kevbo & @daloon. I’m usually starving after sex. Don’t know why and if you’re this eager to please him then that should make him happy. I know I would be :)

There is an excellent book which fits the bill precisely.
It’s called ESO Extended Sexual Orgasm.

Written by a husband/wife couple, Paul and Donna Brauer.

Contains detailed instructions and explanations for both the how and why.

I prefer one. When I can “pull off” a second. It is rather un-eventful.

If I hold out till she has her fill of orgasms. Then I cut loose it is like having 5 orgasms in one.
So much more satisfying. And then I can watch TV.

Also, a buzz kill for me is a woman that is so driven to try to get me to do it again.
I prefer to go with the flow, who wants that type of pressure.

Finger his doke , erse, bum , butt , ass, whatever you wanna call it play with his prostate

Unlike women, after orgasm men have a refractory period during which they can’t have another orgasm. The generally accepted duration of the period is about 15 minutes, but there have been claims that with proper training and/or chemicals it can be shortened.

Wait.. so some men only have… one orgasm per.. sexual romp? What? I’m confused.

Introduce him to multiple women. ~

Let him go to sleep between orgasms.