Why would fantasizing sexually about my man before bed lead to sex dreams about another person?

Because your subconscious finds dreaming about your real boyfriend too easy. It wants something a little taboo, something you don’t allow yourself to think about in your conscious brain. The more you push it out, the more it will appear in your subconscious. Try to just accept it, and move on.

Because you rock.

@La_chica_gomela I never thought about it that way…

That’s strange. When I fantasize sexually about my man before going to sleep, I dream about your man. ;)

@MissAusten Lol! Well you enjoy that, because I sure do :)

It’s my mojo. Just go with it.

Yes, sir :)

haha It’s past my bedtime. I better walk away from the computer before I embarrass myself further. :)

Is it me?

It’s me, isn’t it?

OMG, I totally know how you feel.

Cause dreams are meaningless?

@filmfann As far as you know, yes :)
@Sarcasm I disagree.
@kevbo lol

Sorry, i won’t show up any more. :(

you can come if you bring snacks :)

@Facade funny, you’d come if i snacked….ironic.

@eponymoushipster LOL! How deliciously inappropriate :)

Perhaps the domestic familiarity and availability makes for poor fantasy material.

I don’t know but would you mind if I just hung around a while and watch the answers?

And it’s okay if it’s me. I won’t tell.

lol, be my guest, but I don’t think there will be many more

I do this too! I never thought about why though!

When you fantasize, even though it’s about your guy, it’s still all in your head. I.e., it’s not really about your man.

When you dream, you are also acting out all the parts. Although you may put different faces on the characters, they are still all you. This dream reminds you that fantasy is in your head, and reality is not. It makes you think about desiring reality even though you can make anything you want happen in your dreams.

why not?

Ugh! Why did you revive this?! lol