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astrakan's avatar

Have you ever had sexual feelings towards a relative or family member?

Asked by astrakan (89points) October 4th, 2009

And did it go anywhere?

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jazzjeppe's avatar

Uhm…no, sorry…

sandystrachan's avatar

Have you @astrakan….
I know of people who go out with cousins of cousins , but to them its natural .

MacBean's avatar

I had a crush on one of my first cousins when we were very little. It never went anywhere, though. Not even “playing doctor,” and we were around the right age for that.

sandystrachan's avatar

Sex with family members is ok ,it’s the breeding with them thats wrong isn’t it ?
Ok morally its all wrong , but not frowned upon like breeding with them is .

chelsea_steve's avatar

I have very strong urges towards my wife. I’m trying to control them, but it’s difficult.
Does that count?

DarkScribe's avatar

Removed by me. I was beaten to the punch-line.

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oratio's avatar

I have a very sexy cousin, but I wouldn’t go there. There are over three billion women in the world. I think I can get a few of those.

cookieman's avatar

A resounding no.

Clearly, you haven’t seen the women in my family.

doerayme's avatar

We have a Sheep that we consider family as we raised him from infancy and i must say that she looks quite atractive when the wife has the Red Flag flying.(wellies must be of a good standard)

DrBill's avatar

Yes, but at the time we did not know we were related. It ended abruptly the moment we found out.

chyna's avatar

What’s with the WV topic?

wilma's avatar

No, never.
I can’t even imagine…
No

oratio's avatar

@wilma You protest a bit too much… What’s really going on there?

Grisaille's avatar

I have like a 5th cousin or so that I’ve always thought was fucking hot. She drips sex appeal, seriously.

Beyond that, no.

poofandmook's avatar

I had a crush on a cousin when we were little kids… but I wouldn’t call it sexual feelings. I don’t even think I knew what sex was then.

Sarcasm's avatar

I have an attractive cousin who I’ve seen maybe 3 times in my life.
That’s all.

drdoombot's avatar

When I was a young teen, some relatives of mine migrated from the former Soviet Union to the US, including an older, smoking hot first cousin. It’s embarrassing to admit now, but I remember having sexual dreams about her, right around the time I saw her at the beach.

I think it’s normal for boys of a certain age to have sexual thoughts about the women around him. Going to an all-boys school, most of my sexual thoughts were about the female teachers. I guess my first cousin was included because I didn’t really know her (I never had sexual thoughts about the cousins I grew up with, even the pretty ones).

MrBr00ks's avatar

I have a cousin that won the junior Miss Minnesota Pageant, but no, nothing.

JONESGH's avatar

My cousin and I had “crushes” on each other when we were about 6, but after a month or so that was done ha

jbfletcherfan's avatar

God, no! Never.

KatawaGrey's avatar

I have never had sexual feelings about any of my relatives, but I do recognize that if my cousins and I were not related, I would be wildly attracted to them. Of course, if we were not related, they would treat me very differently and I might not be very attracted to them.

ratboy's avatar

Incest works best when it’s kept in the family.

evelyns_pet_zebra's avatar

<—wants to meet this sheep that @doerayme is talking about. =)

wilma's avatar

@orato nothing going on here.
Why didn’t you ask the others who said no in various ways what was going on there?
As for protesting too much, I don’t think so.
I do agree with you though…
There are billions of men in the world.
I could look there, family not included.

oratio's avatar

@wilma You took that far too serious.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

My families on both mother and father’s sides are filled with cousin marriages although I’ve been told they tried to at least pick from 3rd cousins or farther out. Yeah right.

DrBill's avatar

Someone once confided that they just had sex with their 2ed cousin,

I told them to stop counting them.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@DrBill: there’s a joke between my ex and I about our respective cousins

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@DrBill:

Ex: “eww, you kissed your cousin”
Hx3: “yeah but you married yours”

DrBill's avatar

@hungryhungryhortence

We also have a joke about my sister and her “Brother-husband”

(she married a guy with the last name Brother.)

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@DrBill: we’ve got “aunt-mom” and “uncle-dad” and a Grama who married her 1st cousin of the same family name. Yippie Yi Yay!

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