Could a relationship be succesful if the sex is dissatisfying?

Man, that is brutal how small are we talkin here. Well either way I’d just tell him you thought it was a mistake and you don’t want to be intimate with him. yaddah yaddah yaddah. dont mention the small penis thing though.

Investigate oral. Maybe your vagina is really big?

i dont know yet…..we didnt do it yet. but i was just preparing my self for the worst….but i dont wanna hurt nobody feelings cause im not that type of person. and my vagina is very well intact….never had a complaint yet.and i dont wanna be compelled to cheat!

Jp is on to something here.. oral should be easy for you if he is small!

Does this really make a difference to you? You said you’ve liked him for a long time.. so continue to like him and don’t worry so much about the size of his penis. I’m sure there are things about you that he overlooks.

If it’s all about the dick for you, your relationships will all be lacking. You need to think about the entire person, not just penile size my dear. Buy a dildo, and keep the friendship.

Even if he has a small penis, it doesn’t mean the sex will be bad. You could try some of these positions. Sex doesn’t make a relationship and if you really care for the guy it will be great no matter what! But that doesn’t mean you can’t ask for what you want in bed and give a little direction. Have fun!

thanks but sometimes it does matter. i did test the waters…..4 mos. later, and just as i though, WHACK & SMALL how can you stay commited if you dont like the sex? by the way he cant keep a girlfriend. and i CANT be the one to break the bad news, i dont wanna hurt feelings, he just wants to know why we cant have sex anymore. he really really wants to be with me though. oh yeah @ kidkyle about 4in small

I’m sure you all already know my answer
Not a chance. I think sex is a very big part of a relationship. Sex is a natural desire. If I was not happy with my sex life, I would not be happy with the relationship. This does not mean people can not learn. A couple has to work very hard to create a good sex life. It takes a lot of time, effort, and communication with your partner. a small penis is a different story
How small is small to you? Is he not good at giving oral sex? Has he tried using a dildo or vibrator on you?

@ violet you must’ve read my mind….....thank ya!

@fedupwitcaddys you are very welcome. If you do love him, or think you could love him, give him a chance. See how all his skills are before you get rid of him. If he is also bad at oral, try to teach him (this may take several months).
If you are not all that into him, it may not be worth the effort.

Please get away from this guy .. lol… let him find someone who isn’t so concerned with the size of his penis.. if you care at all about him.

I think for most people, the relationship wouldn’t last. However, if he’s worth it, maybe you two could work on an alternative to intercourse. Also, if it was just the first time or so, maybe he’s nervous and you just aren’t used to each other yet. After a while, maybe he’ll learn how to please you, with some instruction.

I echo others who have said that sex doesn’t have to be dissatisfying just because of the size of the penis – sex is much more than genitals and you should consider learning more about it…if you feel that you have tried many things and it is not a compromise for you to have less than amazing sex, then you should break up with him.

How teeny is his weeny?

@ChazMaz what is with you and asking questions before reading… 6th answer down.

@fedupwitcaddy’s Has he had anyone in his life like you before? perhaps he doesn’t Rise unless he is really happy with a girl. LOVE HIM DEEPLY! Exchange some oral with him, toss some Wax on him to get him UP- give it a tug and Really DO him good… kiss him in the Mall, On the sidewalk, on the train, pull over and kiss him in the car- you might be rewarded with him getting bigger because he Loves you with All his heart and has been saving the big One for YOU!

See what happens- Get some Sex Toy’s.

@drClaw – I just wanted to say teeny weeny. :-)

Take a pill. :-)

Only you know. If after awhile his small size still bothers you, it’s best for the both of you that you end it as soon as you are sure. There are many women who pretend that size doesn’t matter but then their anger and frustration manifest in other parts of the relationship. becoming passive aggressive and finding fault always complaining. Just like You probably can’t change how you feel, he can’t change his size. Just think about why you like him now and make those the reasons to do right by him.

Any chance he’ll read this? If so, don’t worry, he won’t stick around for long anyway.

@Zen_Again No kidding. This is the equivalent of a woman hearing that her boobs are too flat to stay with her.. or she’s just too fat… except it’s probably worse.. because there’s not much this guy can do about it…

It’s never good to tell someone that part of their body is so bad that you can’t date them. XD or to think it even..

Exactly.

thats why i cant be the one to tell him. i dont know how it might affect him. i KNOW i got big feet, but for a guy i really like to tell me might scar me for life. thanks for ALL the advice

Well, you’re not married to him are you? If you’re single , I don’t see why it’s a big deal.

Then it seems quite straight forward, you do not enter a relationship; you keep him as a good friend and go find some other guy who is swinging a bigger bat.

[… never had a complaint yet.and i dont wanna be compelled to cheat!
If you cheated it would be you and no one else. It would be because the relationship to you is not enough if there is no physical sexual fulfillment. Right there is a red flag that if I were him, I would take a pass and go find a girl that wanted me for me, even if there was never any sex.

There are many women who pretend that size doesn’t matter but then their anger and frustration manifest in other parts of the relationship. becoming passive aggressive and finding fault always complaining.
Here, here! Pearls of wisdom.

If you are so worried about his small size, backdoor action should fit you both well.