How often do you and your "lover" fight?

I wanna know about how often you fight with your lover, and what some common topics for arguments are. Do you feel these are legit things to get in a yelling match over? you dont actually have to have yelled at each other, its just an expression Do you find that you or your lover are/is more often at fault? And how do you normally make up?

not looking for people to gush about there amazing relationships… you can do that else where