How to get continuous flow of erotic thoughts during sex?

find a more exciting partner?

It doesn’t have to be all erotic all the time. There’s always something inadvertently funny. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and make it a team effort.

Talking is a good way. Tell your partner what you’re about to do, what you’re doing, what you’ve just done – or have your partner talk to you. Don’t worry about sounding stupid – everyone sounds stupid during sex. Being in there “here and now” during sex, though – how can that not be hot, if you just think about what you’re doing?

Have sex, for instance?

From what I understand, there’s a large psychological aspect to ED, so that the more you think about it and the more pressure you put on it, the more difficulty you’ll have. I don’t have a penis, so my experiences are a bit different, but the times where I was having trouble getting turned on or having performance issues, I found it helpful to try to turn my brain off and just enjoy the feelings.

Think about exactly what you’re doing to your partner (details included). Talk dirty and get into it. Don’t be afraid to use your hands. Touch your partner all over and let them touch you.

Don’t feed the trolls.

Think of Anne Murray.

P.S. welcome to fluther!

@wildpotato I’m not sure what made you think this is a trolling question, but it seems pretty legit to me, so far at least. If you think it’s a trolling question, you should flag it as such. (If your comment was meant as a joke, I apologize.)

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The other nitht I found myself sining the song Darling Nikki by Prince to myself during sex, I love that song!

@laureth had the best answer, you have to focus on the here and now of sex, and let things happen. The only thing I can add is don’t worry about performance, there is much more to sex than coitus. A really good lover can perform for his lady without using his penis. You have fingers, hands, lips, and a tongue. Give her all she wants and little rover11 will come along sooner or later.