Have you ever had to decide between two loves? If so, what happened?

Yes, although both of them would probably have been fine with me casually dating both of them. I felt it was wrong and made a choice. Neither would have been the right choice because, in hindsight, neither was right for me. Still, I went with my heart and ended up screwing up my life for a couple of years.

Do you have any idea how much I hate love triangles.

Make up your mind, before they do. Otherwise you’ll loose them both.

I had to do this once. I had a best guy friend that was “in love” with me. I had to choose between him and another guy. However, the best friend wasn’t willing to stop smoking pot for me. Soo… that helped me make the decision.

@pinkparaluies That doesn’t happen in the “To Love-Ru” anime series, they decided to drag it on and on.

@Samurai ...What?

@pinkparaluies Just saying it doesn’t always turn out that way, maybe it doesn’t always turn out that way in fiction.

Yes. Was happy with my decision for a while, about 2 years. Then we took a break. She had sex with some other dude the day after we made that decision.

I never went back.

Bumped into the other girl about a year after that (went to the ballet, she was performing). We clicked. Realized we never stopped loving and missing one another. Tragedy reared its head, we split. She went away.

~ fin

I’ve been in that position a couple times. You get over the big hump of making the decision and move on with your life.

Loves, no. Lovers, a few times but I went with my gut and still feel I made the right choices for what worked best for me. A lover once asked me to decide if I wanted to continue a few flirtations that pre existed him or to step up and chance a relationship with him exclusively; I chose him.

Yes.. It happened to me, I had a boyfriend and we were together like 4 years and a half, the relationship was very weak, and I guess we just grew apart.. Then I met this other guy, that totally made me lose my head, like completly. At first I thought that it was just a crush and that It was normal, but then I realized I was very very infatuated and I just couldn’t be with my boyfriend.. so I chose the new guy, and I don’t regret it at all.

yes and I kept them both. one of them and I broke up 6 mo. later and the other one and I are now married

yea, i chose the one who i could see myself lasting with, it was just a co-incidence that he had a larger penis….

yes this has happened to me and they were twins I liked them both but one of them I didn’t like cause he smoked and my friends were worried about me being around him if he smoked so I chose the other guy