@mattbrowne I 100% agree. I think my difficulty with doctors is since I am the type that wants to know all of the information, some doctors don’t want to take the time to explain, they want me to just trust they are right. I really am not that bad of a patient. I don’t call all of the time, or make ridiculous demands, I just want my questions answered and to be heard. I don’t walk in with a bunch of crap from the internet believing it is the gospel, I know better, My favorite doctors seem to treat the doctor patient relationship as a partnership, where we are both aiming for the same goal, my health.
Here are three examples without all of the details of things that have happened to people in my family:
1. my father was prescribed Propulsid and Sporonox at the same time. Black box warning against this, can kill you. Prescribed by the same doctor, he probably prescribes propulsid 20 times a week, he should knwo deadly combinations in my mind.
2. My mother was unable to control her blood pressure for a couple of days after her last colonscopy. Her doctor didn’t seem to care. I hypothesized that it must be the electrolytes in the drug, and indeed when we looked up the drug there is a warning about taking it with medication she takes for blood pressure. This doctor prescribes the same drug every day to many patients. She already had one bad experience.
3. My father had bypass surgery at 46, they wanted to use a mammary artery but his were too blocked, bad genes, stuff blocking up his arteries all over his body it seemed. After surgery he went for his regular cardiac and GP appontments for years. About 12 years post surgery he got a new doctor and for the first time, first time they listened to his neck. We now know they should havebeen doing this all along. Within weeks he was on the table and they wound up having to completely tie off a corotid artery on one side because it was 90% occluded. He was lucky that the system for carrying blood from one side of the brain to the other works perfectly in him, which is not true for much of the population.
I could go on and on.
I’m sorry, those are all inexcusable to me. Makes me feel like I have to be on my toes and questions, and take care of myself, and it is extremely stressful to not be confident that you can rely on your doctor.
I do not expect doctors to know everything or to be Gods. I understand medical science does not know everything, that there is much unknown. But, I don’t want a doctor annoyed at me when I was flippin’ right. Why is my mother’s doctor not opening up the GD PDR when she describes her concerns? I did not even need the PDR to guess what might be affecting her blood pressure, certainly a doctor should be able to easily draw a similar conclusion.
Thanks for listening to my rant, I get wound up :).