I am in love like crazy but my boyfriend makes me unhappy should I leave him or what I should do?

How do you not fall in love with your boyfriend??? that was a mistake i think, the promise you made. Well, I cannot tell you what to do and I will not advise you as I am no expert myself but I will tell you what I would have done had i been in your place.
First of all, you say he is a girl hunter, and your relationship is secret, so it sort of hints that he is also seeing other girls, dont you think? So you sort of dont really have him. Secondly, if you are in a relationship and its secret and you are not supposed to fall in love, isnt this friends with benefits? like a sex friend thing? Well, so I do not see what you really have to lose here, instead i think it will hurt more not knowing what could have been if you had told him. So I would have told him, even if I do lose him, atleast I wouldnt be in a one-sided relationship.
Good Luck girl, this is not going to be easy !

You need to tell him that you broke the promise not to fall in love with him. He sounds like he’s above board in this—you know he’s a girl hunter, and he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want a committed relationship. The only way that the situation is going to get better is to tell him, and move on. Either you will eventually meet someone else who will love you back, or he may discover that he’s miserable without you.

Well, first off, there is no guy worth killing yourself over. Secondly, the whole promise thing sounds like he had a creative moment and created a new ‘pick-up line’ for you. He is not faithful to you.

I really can’t help much because I can’t get a grasp on your situation. Is this the first guy you have had sex with? Did he ever do any nice things that would give you the impression that he cared about you?

From what I would say now the relationship seems to only be in your head and nowhere else, so I am not sure what you are losing by losing him. What do you lose when you lose a loser? hehe

Usually the tricky part is mixed messages but this guy’s message seems to have always been clear. I don’t want people to know we did this, I don’t want people to know about you, I don’t want a real relationship with you.

Actually, he cares so much for me. I know that for sure. If I would call him in the middle of the night saying to him that I wasn’t feeling good he would leave everything and come to me. He proved that so many times to me. Sometimes we we would spent the entire week together and if there were girls trying to him in front of me he would give them a sign that he was with me by kissing me in public. But he keeps our relationship secret only from his friends not because they still think we are best friends. It wasn’t me who broke the secret. The hardest thing in here is that I am afraid to tell him that I am crazy in love with him, scared that i might lose him.

You have to be true to your feelings no matter what the risk. After all you have to live with yourself the rest of your life. If you don’t respect your feelings then he definetly won’t.

What happens if you don’t tell him. You have the drama that you live with everyday now, versus the drama that might happen if he runs off.

I guess you could ask him to make the choice, since you are having a hard time.

Just ask him: “Would you like to bring our relationship out in the open?” Now the ball is in his court.

If you know he cares aboutyou and he has expressed that in front of other people then I think you should tell him. If it helps, I was in a similar situation to you a few years back, I developed feelings for a very good friend, we weren’t sleeping together at the time but we were very flirty and it got to the point where it was driving me crazy. I knew that I risked losing his friendship but I had to tell him that I loved him. Long story short, I don’t regret it. He felt the same. I say go for it, you are miserable now and that will only continue if things remain the same. Good luck :)

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It’s time to break up with him. You will be better off. You won’t be happy in a relationship with him. You said so yourself that he’s a girl hunter and isn’t in love with you. Move on and find a better guy for you.