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How would you approach meeting someone you like in person for the first time?

Asked by alphabet_soup (15points) November 22nd, 2009

Known each other for a few months, met online. Stay with them? Stay somewhere else? How long is too long? What advice would you give in this situation?

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chyna's avatar

How long have you known them? In what manner have you known them? Just on the internet? We need more information.

The_Compassionate_Heretic's avatar

Neutral ground is good. Meet for coffee or something.

rooeytoo's avatar

My husband and I met online about 14 years ago. We talked endlessly for a year or so then decided to meet in person. I flew to Australia (since it was winter back there and warm and sunny here). When I came up out of customs in Sydney airport I saw him standing there with a rose, we went into each others arms. It felt like home immediately.

I would have a hotel room booked and I think when you actually come face to face, you will know what you want to do.

I see what @The_Compassionate_Heretic just said and I am basing my answer on the premise that you live some distance apart and would be meeting after a plane trip to get there so have to have a place to stay.

faye's avatar

I would meet for coffee and/or dinner. And I would have my own hotel room.

faye's avatar

@rooeytoo the stuff dreams are made of!!

augustlan's avatar

I second what @faye said. Line up your own place to stay, and meet for a date of some kind. If the two of you end up staying together, you can always leave the hotel. Better to be prepared though.

SamIAm's avatar

I would shoot for meeting at a coffee shop kinda place…. and if things work from there, you can ALWAYS get a hotel at the last minute (assuming you’re over 18).

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deni's avatar

@rooeytoo Awwww. There’s nothing like an airport hug. Honestly. :’)

rooeytoo's avatar

@faye & @deni – we have just had our 11th year together in the flesh anniversary and I do still like him, it’s pretty much a new record for me, hehehehe.

deni's avatar

@rooeytoo melts my heart :)

CMaz's avatar

Preferably moving in a direction that closes the gap between you both.

chyna's avatar

Probably stay in a hotel and make the first meeting for a weekend only.

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