How could i make her happy again?

Tell her you’re sorry you made her upset and you can’t wait to see her again so you can give her a big hug.

We could give you better answers if you tell us what you did to piss her off.

Apologize. Put yourself in her shoes. Rinse and repeat.

Hello, welcome to Fluther! As @Judi says, more info would be nice.

I usually offer bad advice

i was mad at her, n i called over and over and over, like 200 + times. we been together for 2 + years, and i feel like i really messed up this time. i just feel dumb. and i never even did this before. i just fucked up.

@johnpowell , I wish I was techno savvy like you!

The best gifts are the ones that are (heart) hand-made. Rather than buying a Hallmark card, or having someone design one for you amongst your newfound jelly friends, why not make an effort.

Write a poem, however simple, on a card. Have you kept any receipts from restaurants or films you’ve gone to together? This would be a good time to start a little photo book with mementos.

Bake something? Don’t know how? I didn’t either – you can google or fluther search recipes galore – the effort will be appreciated.

Bon chance.

@BlockStar22 ; Your best bet might be to give her a break and leave her alone for a day or two. Let her contact you.

I have been there before. Try getting on a website she participates in just like you and have strangers try to open her eyes to forgiving you. It works.

@Damn_Tony ; So you and tink are still together?

i’m trying. but we talk like everyday, and it’s hard not talking to her since we talk every day. she called me this mornin around 5am. i just started going crazy and asking her to forgive me but then she hung up….. so i’m trying hard to not talk to her…

HAHA!!!! have my friends contact her? oh hell would brake loose.

@BlockStar22 ; How old are the two of you?

@Judi Yes, we’ve had a few “fights” but were still together.

she 17 n im 18

@Damn_Tony If she was to see this question it would be good- Till she got to the part ”(she on her period and she’s sick so you know….)’ Nothing like a guy telling everyone his girlfriend is on her period to make her feel all warm and fuzzy about him.

LOL @Dog – notice how well behaved I am.

i’m kinda dumb. i know how to make a poem, i use to always write her one. but how do i make a good poem? a interesting one..

You live in another town? I’m assuming you went off to college and she’s still in HS? This is a hard one buddy. Not a real high success rate. If you both are miserable you might want to consider a trial separation. You seem WAY to obsessed. 200 times????

no, i’m with my family for a couple of weeks.

@Dog Knowing her, she might have already seen this question and is fuming right now.

@BlockStar22 : Sorry I couldn’t help myself :p

Poems do not have to rhyme, they just have to be heart-filled.

Don’t send her John Powell’s graphic unless you want to be shot on sight.

@BlockStar22 Give her some time, she’ll come around. It depends on what you told her. After she not sick anymore, that is.

Actually, you can send her flowers
You can thank me later. I used this to send my fiance flowers all the way in Uzbekistan, its legit.

@Jeruba :: It is a happy face on a red dot. I don’t see what is wrong.

Yeah. Maybe it’s about the spelling of menstrual. Maybe not.

i cant do poems, i just get depress. n here i am still texting her saying sorry when i know shes asleep. this-is-hard.

Let’s try something different….........STOP CALLING HER, STOP TEXTING HER, STOP GOING CRAZY, STOP!

Ok…now…..calm down. Send flowers then don’t call her. LET HER CALL YOU.

It’s called the “rubber band effect”. She knows that you are sorry, as you told her. Now, just calm down…...and let her contact you. If you keep chasing after her, she will keep running….if you stop and calm down and stop calling/texting…..she will come looking for you. Right now, you are just getting her more upset by chasing her down.

The more you run after her….....the more you are pushing her away.

Give her a chance to miss you…....she can’t miss you if you are in her face all the time.

I know it’s painful…..but you need to give a person some space. And then allow them to make a move toward you.

It sounds to me as if you are insinuating she is cranky and easily annoyed because “she on her period.” If that is true then that annoys me, most women do not lose their ability to live and get along with the rest of humanity just because they on their period.

If the relationship is worth anything, one fight will not destroy it. Next time though, think before you go to war.

Is that too harsh?

You called and texted her 200+ times, and you think the problem is her period?

I you want to apologize in a really effective way, do some serious soul searching, and get yourself into anger management counseling while you’re still young enough to make a difference without destroying other people’s lives along the way.

lol i ain’t goin crazy- yelling @ her. and i know its not her fault.
and last night we talked for like a little while, no fighting. just talkin on yahoo..
like i said. its the first that i acted with her like this, hopefully she’ll forgive me…

i made her say “aww” a though times too so i think im doing good…

You trying to make the fight you guys had her fault by making her feel bad doesn’t work either.

“also i’m wondering if anybody is good in photoshop, if they could make a “i love you” design.”

First, man it up. Asking if someone can make you an “I love you” design. That is just childish.

If you feel bad, say you are sorry. Tell her you love her and will see her soon. Then suffer in your heart ache like the rest of us.

Some girls don’t like being told that when they are angry. http://www.fluther.com/disc/62272/why-do-people-say-you-know-i-love-you-when-you/