@galileogirl You are assuming (twice now) my question is some passive-aggressive way of dealing with a coworker, as if it’s personal. Why are so many things personal to you? Are you suspicious that everyone who says something you disagree with has some sort of personal agenda? And that was after an assumption you made that my question had to do with friends or family that you thought maybe I observed.
If the coworker was the only person in the world who did this, then it wouldn’t matter anyway. This has nothing to do with her, except for the fact observing her made me realize that thousands of people probably waste water for no real tangible benefit to their lives.
I realized it’s a larger issue soon as I saw the activity, and it barely has anything to do with the person. One single person wasting water means nothing.
The real issue is thousands of people who don’t care about this sort of thing.
And an even larger issue is perhaps that EVERY action in a person’s life should have thought behind it, no matter how small or large that action is. Every road maneuver, every product bought, and every physical action there is. There shouldn’t be a thoughtless moment in our day, except when sitting still.
You think my question is dishonest because you think I’m lashing out at a single person who engaged in a behavior. And if that were true, then you’d have a point on that. But there’s no truth to that at all. That line of thinking is a convenient way to deny the real issue.
My questions have nothing to do with personal tit-for-tats, and nothing to do with passive ways of dealing with individuals who I know.
I personally wouldn’t even bother answering a dishonest question. Next time you see a question of mine you think is dishonest, I suggest you don’t even bother to answer it, and move on to something else. remember that’s a suggestion, not an order Because when you you think in such terms, the only answer you’ll end up giving will be stuff that addresses everything but the real issue at hand.
And if my question itself is a waste to begin with, it certainly doesn’t need to drag you and your beautiful presence down with it.