I am new here (from AB) and I was the expert in the Adult section. What would be the best section to focus on here?
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December 12th, 2009
do I have to put details? lol
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Some young kids are on here-keep it light.
@Violet: I’m going to miss your teachings, Miss pr0n. )’:
We don’t really have sections here, but there is plenty of sex talk! As long as it’s not pornographic, and marked NSFW, it’s fine.
Aug- that is so good to hear. What are some topics that are off limits? Can I talk about sex toys and masturbation? I don’t want to get in trouble here (I was kicked of YA for talking about sex toys)
what’s up with the NSFW.. that is such a silly code. What about “adult”?
and thank you stupidgirl : )
lol, I am happy I won’t have to hear about that topic anymore!
@gtreyger: AB. formerly Answerbag, now Garbagebag is a dying Q&A site.
I LOVE how you call it garbagebag! This is too funny. I was calling it briefcase (because they changed their symbol from a bag to a briefcase)
This is where you can send the explicit sex talk.
lol @AstroChuck yes, sex talk over here please!
@Violet here’s an way to give you an idea, use fluthers search to get an idea of what topics have already been asked. Sex seems to be a popular topic.
Hey Violet – are you off the Bag for good? Best, Jonathan
Its good to find a familiar ABer here
Nice to see you Violet! I’m not sure if Fluther has an Adult section (I’ve only just arrived), however, if I find anything of the sort, I’ll be sure to notify you :D
There is no section per se, but sex is often discussed quite openly, and I do not believe that you will find that there are any limits as to what can be discussed as long as you have the courtesy to indicate that the content of the question or discussion is intended for adults, so that people who prefer not to be exposed to such content can opt out. We generally use the convention NSFW, but I’m sure you could say “Adult” or use any other term making it clear that some people may object.
Hi @Violet! Welcome. On your profile, be sure to tag topics that you’re an expert/interested in and you’ll get questions filtered to your expertise. The more you answer under one topic, the more you’ll get under the same topic.
@Violet: Think about what you would like a teen-aged child to read here. There have been
dozens of discussions on every variation of sex and excrement. I can’t imagine that there is anything new left to say.
Every time a new wave of fluthers show up (welcome, by the way) we see a lot of repetition.
If you like to talk dirty, go to PMs or chatroom.
And here I thought we were going into the erotic literature business! @Violet I don’t know what you did back at AB, but you can answer any question you want pretty much any way you want. You can also ask questions about pretty much anything you want.
But if you think you can get raise the heat in the room like I can, then I say, “Come on baby! Show me your stuff!”
There are a few of us already here who don’t mind going down…. there. A few more and we’ll have a bonafide orgy. The gauntlets are down, and more than one member is making things tight in their sheaths!
Daloon and gailcalled-
I also moderated the adult section. So, I do not find it acceptable for people to ask question like “do you want to hook up”. I also report all confessions of child molestation to the FBI. While I am a very sexual person, I can also be conservative at time, I am all for rules, following rules, and enforcing rules (can you tell what my major is? lol).
@Violet Confessions of child molestation? Did you actually have them?
I think questions like “Do you want to hook up” would not meet the fluther guidelines. I think that sounds like a polling question. However, we have had many discussions about hooking up, since it is a concept that is somewhat scary to some of us. In my case, it’s not because I have any problem with people having many partners; it’s more because I think it involves a hurtful separation between emotions and body.
So are you in CJ?
And seriously, don’t worry about keeping it PG-13. Just keep it respectful and informative, and it should be fine.
@daloon – I don’t know what a CJ is. And yes, I found many confession of child molesters, and confessions to other felonies.. Within our adult section, we had pretty nasty subcategories: toilet slaves, bestiality, incest. And those were becoming quite popular.
if you don’t know what it is, then I’m wrong. Typical.
I had never heard of a toilet slave before this question. Not sure I’m terribly happy to know about it now!
@augustlan I think they lick the toilet and do other various things that are seldom a “toilets” job.
@Axemusica There are some things that I could have lived my life perfectly well without ever knowing. So, do they clean the toilets first, or is part of the pleasure in risking illness? Which reminds me of another practice I have heard of which is even more revolting to me. I think I’ll stop there. I really want to get my mind out of the toilet!
@daloon I was taking a stab in the dark. I’m not into that kind of thing, just the thought provoking images I get is something like what I mentioned.
@augustlan – what daloon said is incorrect about what toilet slaves are… It is much worse than that. Have you ever heard of 2 girls 1 cup? It’s more along those lines.
@daloon – I’m sorry for correcting you.
@Violet: Yes, we are all too familiar with 2 girls and whatever; it gets very tiresome after the first 100 times.
@gailcalled – tiresome? I only watched the first few seconds.
But that is basically what a toilet slave is. Someone who eats poop
The director swears his actresses really wouldn’t have eaten poop. He says that was chocolate. Just sayin’.
@pdworkin – good to know. But a toilet slave is STILL someone who eats poop.. feel free to google that
Oh, I’m sure you are right. I was just amused that this most famous of gross-out movies was in actuality so tame.
@pdworkin – my bf thinks it is fake too. I only watched a few seconds.. so I have no idea. It may be fake, but there are many more just like it that are real.
Hi Violet nice to see you
@sleepdoc – you too : ) what do you think of fluther?
Hi Violet, Phil is OK from AB- same pic here too! Nice to see I have someone to share with, plz add me and we can share and perhaps an Adult section will appear here eventually! I go to the SEX section.
I have a question concerning sex, @Violet. I used to think that tats were a turn-off, until I met a woman with one on her back. She actually said, and I quote, it’s so you’ll have something to watch while you’re in my favourite position. Actually, that wasn’t a question, it was just showing off. I figured this would be a good thread to post that.
@Zen_Again haha, sometimes I think about…. That position :) & wonder. What if it’s like REALLY awesome artwork? Like it took a total of 1 month under the gun time & just was so vibrant. I kind of think I’d get lost in the tattoo more than the fact I was nailing her from behind, lol. So I tend to stick with females, that don’t have master pieces on them, haha. A couple here & there is fine ;).
@Zen_Again – haha. I have 2 tattoos on my back, one I regret. I admit it’s a tramp stamp.
Follow-up for @Axemusica and @Violet et al: it took about 6 hours under the gun it’s really artsy – but has no effect on my concentration. Big ;-)
@Zen_Again – I don’t see it being distracting. Mine took a good 3–4 hours.
Re. your question, @Violet – as has been stated and restated above – there are no sections in fluther – but this could be the go-to thread for all things sex. Yes?
;-)
Happy flexing (fluthering about sex)
ZEN OUT
@Zen_Again – This thread is pretty PG-13, compared to what I’m use to. It’s really cute and more innocent over here on fluther.
It’s early morning here. Wait til tonight – when I get a housecall from Dr. Jack and Jeruba says something smart and sexy. Then we’ll see who’s cute and innocent… ~
@Zen_Again – Trust me on this one. Fluther is very innocent compared to what I’m use to. You guys don’t even have an adult section here.
Let’s pretend this is the adult section; gimme an example.
Examples: anal, ass to mouth, rimming, BDSM, oral techniques, multiple partners/orgy, shemales, prostitution, ALL drugs.. And then there are the nasty subjects (toilet slaves, incest, bestiality)
Nothing very shocking. You’ll get used to the fact that the subject isn’t concentrated in one area. Feel free to open discussions. Just label them so people who object won’t go in.
@pdworkin – I’m starting to think fluther isn’t right for me..
Too bad. I like having you around.
@pdworkin – thank you. It’s just that fluther is way over moderated, and I am being forced to ad detail to questions that don’t need detail.
I used to hate what I thought was over-moderation, now I’m glad we have it. Give it a chance.
I agree with @pdworkin – give it a chance and remember, it aint called a “collective” for nothing. When you “joined” you have to learn to play by the rules. Ultimately, you’ll probably find that as imperfect as it is (as are you and I) it’s better than the alternative. And hey, please all please none.
I do too… It’s doing ok cuz I check back- they seem to be debugging pretty well but the page is kinda cluttered with ad’s.
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