How do i go in for a kiss?
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December 15th, 2009
i have been going out with a girl for 3 years and we have not kissed yet and she is ready to kiss but i din’t know how to go in for a kiss. we lock faces but i don’t know what to do next
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Ask her. Or slowly go in and tilt your face to the side. Then there is Hitch’s rule to kissing.
Don’t know if it will work
grab her, throw on the sofa, and kiss her like a real man Jay! lol
Once your faces are “locked”, slide your mouth over until it reaches the corner of her mouth. If she doesn’t slide away, keep sliding until your lips engage. Nature should take over from there.
well, wait a couple of years Jay! your mom will sleep bettter!
Use your hands!
Your first kiss is going to be super awkward. So grab her back and massage it while you kiss. It will be a good distraction and something for you to concentrate on aside from how good/bad the kiss is going. As for the kiss itself, go in slow. And accept it’s probably going to be awkward.
Also, I’ve heard it said that you’re not supposed to ask. I suppose it depends on the girl.
Edit: don’t use your hands too much. Unless of course she wants you to. But I’m guessing not on your first kiss.
just don’t give too much tongue also the first kiss shouldn’t last too long, make it short and sweet. you can always kiss longer and deeper once you both are more confortable with it, just relax and go for it…
Go 90%. Let her finish the rest. XD
I don’t know what faces being “locked” means. Does that mean you’re staring at each other or something?
I like @NaturalMineralWater‘s 90/10 idea. Maybe you could also use body language to let her know what you’re about to do, by touching her in some romantic but non-sexual way when you’re looking at each other. (Upper arm, knee, holding hands, or cup her face in your hand, something like that.) You can also just ask, “can I kiss you?” I’ve done this on dates and it worked out. It’s not like they’re going to say no. :p That smiley reminds me. A lot of people just go all out on their first kiss and slobber all over their partner. It’s a lot nicer if you don’t use tongue at first, and way less pressure. Good luck!
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