@cornbird I’m not going to try to mock you, and it doesn’t bother me a bit that you attempted to mock my last argument. Especially because, whether you noticed it or not (and it’s evident that others did), your mockery rebounds against your argument. You have a nice piece at home? You do have the right to show it off! You also have the right to take it in public (depending on where you live and your prior criminal record—I’m assuming you don’t have one). Considering that private citizens wore unconcealed handguns to an Obama appearance in New Hampshire (even if it was just to prove a point, and even if it was a somewhat irresponsible stunt), that’s a pretty well demonstrated right.
You do have a right to wear lewd and offensive clothing—within very broad limits. (You generally can’t go naked, but even that is permitted in some places, and I’m only going to fight one battle at a time. Because I don’t see why you shouldn’t be able to be naked in public. I’d think it was stupid behavior, but I think a lot of permitted behavior—and speech—is stupid. It doesn’t follow that I think that it should also and therefore be illegal, however.)
You do have a right to speak in a generally offensive manner. (Not on regulated public airways, and not obscenity, however that’s defined, and there are some other regulations against fraud, threatening, impersonating public officials, etc.) That’s just plain rudeness, and there aren’t many laws against that; it’s just that decent people aren’t rude, and most of us are, most of the time, pretty decent.
That’s what this all gets down to. “Freedom” in society is a recognition that people are generally decent and “good”—good enough for everyday use, anyway. And we allow people leeway to be different in their own ways, even at the risk of being “offended” from time to time. Sometimes people are stupid, sometimes they’re rude, and sometimes they’re dangerous to themselves. And in a free society you just do tolerate a certain amount of that, because you also know that on the days you slip up and are stupid, rude or dangerous (if only to yourself) you get a pass on that from the law. (The world at large might have something to say about that, and you may be brought up very short—and quickly—by the laws of physics, chemistry and biology, and you might have your head handed to you on your “bad day” by someone who isn’t as tolerant as you are.) I completely agree that it’s a good idea for us to work constantly to improve our manners, our sobriety, our judgment and our tolerance—as we make our society free.
You do live in a generally free place (the place you mocked in your argument, in fact). But we could do a lot better—if we were freer.
I’ve said all that I can say here, I think.