NSFW -- "Letting go" for a g-spot orgasm (see details inside)

Practice makes perfect!

Practice Practice Practice

I wish I could help you but I can’t seem to make it happen either :(

It’s not uncommon. if you can allow yourself to let go and have a gratifying orgasm, you’re ahead of a lot of women already. I think it’s just being able to trust your partner and for them to reassure you that whatever happens is cool. Sometimes women are self conscious about getting too wet or squirting. But with a partner who is reassuring and your ability to just let go completely you’ll be fine. And even if you do pee a little. Whatever. Have fun.

It actually might help to get a little alone-practice so you know how to control it/let go.

It can also help to empty your bladder right before you snuggle up, so that you can feel “free” to let go. Also, try g-spot stimulation at the same time as clitoral stimulation. Best orgasms ever.

I had a hard problem, too. Reading your question just helped me let go of mine. Thanks.
Now I need a smoke…

A technique I learned for relaxing my body is to imagine that your pubic bones (the pointy parts that you sit on) are gently spreading apart, from side to side. In order to actually accomplish that, you’ve got to sort of push down with your pelvic muscles. I learned this as a way to control anxiety, but a happy side effect is killer orgasms. It’s difficult to do during arousal, since your natural response is to clench those muscles. It takes a concerted effort to keep them relaxed, but it is well worth it!

< getting popcorn..will make like a voyeur from here on

Make sure you pee first. Also, is it intense in an almost painful way? Perhaps ask your partner to be more gentle, or stimulate you gently for awhile before getting intense. And lastly, RELAX.

Isn’t it true that not every woman can reach a g spot orgasm?

Send your mind right down there and don’t think about anything else but the feeling. You won’t be able to stop yourself after a few times. it dies take a few minutes.

@ItalianPrincess1217
I’m available for parties

@SeventhSense You mean like a clown?

@SeventhSense Good to know!
@Fluthermucker LMAO

@Freedom_Issues I’ll try peeing first. Yes, intense in a painful, yet pleasurable way. My partner tends to be a bit rough. The build is amazing, though. But, you know, I think that @SeventhSense nailed it: self conscious about getting too wet or squirting That, too, is part of it.

I’ve never quite felt a build like that. I need to relax more and maybe, they’ll have to slow it down a bit.

The orgasm, I’m thinking, will be quite awesome.

uh.. word of advice: don’t NOT squirt. that’s sinful.
i mean assuming that you’re in it for his satisfaction too!

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@Fluthermucker
Well that was your mother’s request but I rarely bring that outfit to parties. :)

I see several answers that say to pee before you get into bed. So THAT’S where I’ve been going wrong? STUPID, STUPID, STUPID!

moan.

If you’re self-conscious about squirting and can’t psych yourself out of it, you could also try doing this in the bathtub or shower. Even if you pee first, you’ll still feel like you need to pee. It shouldn’t really be painful… there are a lot of nerve endings there, but that area tends to respond to pressure and it’s pretty… durable. You could also try using a g-spot vibrator. Some of them offer clit stimulation at the same time, and that might make it easier for you to let go.

I have to read that question and details again.

I have only had a g-spot orgasm once and yes they are AMAZING lol.
How did I get it? No idea lol.
But.. before sex he gave me a message, built the sexual tension all day, teased, told me to lay back and RELAX (relaxing is key to alot lol), and first used curved fingers hard but slow then went in with his manly hood (me on top) and went slowly but with alot of pressure, and bam 10 min later I had one ;) haha.

@Brenna_o I think I just did, too. Is that possible if I’m a dude?

You think you just did what? lol have a g-spot orgasm? or?

@Brenna_o I think it MOVED!

I think I read somewhere that its impossible to pee and orgasm at the same time….
so when you feel it cumming…take comfort in knowing that its impossible for you to pee all over your partner…

google the peeing + orgasming…and peeing + being aroused to verify

I just heard that the Graffenberg spot has been disproven and some women just have more intense orgasms but the spot itself is just a normally occurring part of the female anatomy.

Theres always back and forth stuff about the GSpot not being real. I’ve felt it…its real.
Also..I also believe there are multiple types including clitoral versus inside (forget what its called) orgasms…another topic thats been disputed.

@Marie123
Yes but apparently it isn’t an unusual gland or anything but just a lump of tissue.

hmmm interesting. It feels good whatever it is!

Sound good to me. :)~

@SeventhSense As well @Marie123 said Ive also felt an orgasm from the “spot” call it whatever you’d like but I know it is there…

Well….._____
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