Wel not to hijack a thread but my name is Jesus… and I had birthday parties with gifts for many years… not so big on celebrating lately though.
As far as Jesus celebrating his B-day onthe 25th that’s a bit of a misconception.
Most biblical scholars and preachers readily admit that they know Christ was not born on December 25th. However, they claim that this day is as good as any other to celebrate the birth of Jesus, despite the fact that it was originally a pagan celebration called Saturnalia which commemorated the birth of the sun god.
There have been festivals of every sort around the winter solstice going back to the Babylonians. But it was the Roman Emperor Aurelian who fixed the actual date. He called December 25th “The Birthday of the Unconquered Sun”, and put it right in the middle of the feast of Saturnalia. (The Romans really knew how to have a feast: Saturnalia lasted a week.)
This was a always a time a great merry making there were big dinners, halls bedecked with laurels and green trees, people carrying lighted candles through the streets, and the giving of gifts was a common practice. In fact, you might say that the Christmas spirit is really the spirit of Saturnalia passed on over time.
~ Enter the Christians ~
The Christians, in the meantime, were having the “Mass of Christ” at various times and places. This wasn’t a commemoration of the birth of Jesus so much as it was a time to reflect on His life and acts. So, when Constantine made Christianity the religion of Rome, the Catholics needed a way to convert the pagans running around the streets of Rome with their candles and presents to Christian practices.
One imagines it went a little something like this: “You have an unconquered sun, we have an unconquered Son. You give gifts—we have wise men bringing gifts. You have bonfires and lamps and candles—we have a new star. It’s not really all that hard put the two together.” Or something like that.
So the date of Christmas became the 25th, the pagans became Christians, and everybody got a day to celebrate selflessness, joy, and light.
As was custom back then the Church readily appropriated pre-existing holy days into the ecumenical calendar in order to ease faith transition and to basically “black out” competing holidays.
The accepted “date” for his birth was actually considered to have occurred months after that of John the baptist. Since John was born on Passover, the 15th day of Nisan (the 1st Jewish month), Jesus would have been born six months later on the 15th day of Tishri (the 7th Jewish month). The 15th day of the 7th month begins the Feast of Tabernacles (Lev. 23:34–35), also known as Sukkot. Jesus was born on the 1st day of the Feast of Tabernacles! In the year 5 BCE, this fell in the month of September.
This explains why there was no room at the inn for Joseph and Mary. A multitude of Jewish pilgrims from all over the Middle East had come to Jerusalem to observe the Feast of Tabernacles, as God required (Deu. 16:16). Bethlehem, which was only a few miles outside of Jerusalem, was also overflowing with visitors at this time because of the Feast.
Does this help at all?