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Whom do you look up to most in your life?

Asked by Polly_Math (1738points) December 23rd, 2009

Is there someone whose advice you consistently value?
Do you turn to this person often?
Do you have a mentor?

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Carbonproduct's avatar

My son. He’s the tallest person I know personally.

Shemarq's avatar

It would have to be my mom. She is a strong woman who was (and is) and excellent mother and also very accomplished in her career. Even though I am 43 and doing ok myself, I still turn to her for advice because I know she will be honest and sincere with me, even if she tells me what I don’t want to hear.

ChocolateReigns's avatar

@Carbonproduct that made me laugh :)
I knew this wonderful girl who was 14 when she was killed in a car accident.
I was 9 at the time and she always played with me and my friends. Now as a girl her age, I am even more amazed at how she could play with us. I always have the memory of playing with Hannah a few days before she was killed and how I want to make that difference in other girl’s lives. So in a way, I turn to her often and she was a mentor to me. That night, December 9, 2005, changed my life forever, though I didn’t really think about it for 3 whole years. Now I want to have a big part in a bible camp when I get older, and if possible, I want to adopt kids or at least do foster care after my own are grown.

Shemarq's avatar

@ChocolateReigns I have to tip my hat to you. Even with something so tragic, you want to turn it around and do good in the world. I wish there were more people like you that could help lead and mold our young children. Have you thought about helping out with the Big Brothers/Big Sisters program?

Carbonproduct's avatar

@ChocolatReigns You sound like a very special lady. ;)

HighShaman's avatar

No ONE anymore…. used to be my mother for the success that she made out of her life with only a 9th grade education… parlayed herself in a net worth of over $500,000 when she passed away .. with $155,00 of that in cash…

filmfann's avatar

My dad. He’s been gone for 26 years, and I am older than he was when he passed. I still think about him every day, and try to be like him, and hope he would be happy with me.

Dr_C's avatar

My mom. The woman has been through so much and still managed to raise 2 kids that love her and spend as much time with her as possible. A world class physician, cultured, funny, outgoing, a great dancer, a loving friend and a great example to follow in all aspects of life. My hero.

wildpotato's avatar

My best friend. He is such a good person; I don’t know why he bothers with me. He makes me want to be a good person too. I don’t turn to him often, but I know he is always there for me. I have no mentor – kind of had one in college, but we weren’t quite that close.

mellow_girl's avatar

wow, good question. my mentor and bestfriend was a girl I met about 12 years ago. we were best friends instantly, she was a liitle older and a lot wiser than I. she helped me so much with her advice, many times she took the role of mother and sister. when i needed her she was always there for me, never once did she ever let me down.on november 21, 2009 she passed away. i miss her so much but im also very thankful that i had her in my life. she was a gift to me from god, she saved my life just by being there because i was very depressed when i was younger. i miss her so much and i love her, she will always be my bestfriend…

LTaylor's avatar

My Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I strive to be more like him ever day. Yet i fail. But I pick my self up again and strive some more.

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

No one any more. All the people whose advice I respect are gone now.

Violet's avatar

I guess at the moment, my boss. She is a very strong and gorgeous woman.

faye's avatar

Myself

ChocolateReigns's avatar

@Shemarq I have but right now I’m too young…I’m only 13. It stinks.

ChocolateReigns's avatar

@LTaylor How could I have forgotten that part! I’m a Christian to and I’m trying very hard to be a godly woman.

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