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If you were dating an actor... would you be jealous of their love scenes?

Asked by Tomfafa (2313points) December 26th, 2009

Would it worry you more if you were ambivalent rather then madly possessive?

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Medlang's avatar

i would be jealous yet understanding and patient…probably

eeveegurl's avatar

I wouldn’t be ambivalent – I think it’d make me want to jump their bones a little more!

andrew's avatar

It’s bothered me more when people I’ve dated half-ass a love scene. Of course, that’s actors dating actors.

rangerr's avatar

Errrm. I don’t know what ambivalent means..
But I’d be pretty jealous.

DrBill's avatar

No problem as long as their only acting

StephK's avatar

Gotta be honest: I’d be completely jealous.

jules96's avatar

Truthfully, I’d probably turn green with jealousy. Storm-brewing jealousy. I wouldn’t say anything to them about it though, because I always tend to keep my frustrations to myself.

Kelly_Obrien's avatar

Nope. After all, it is just work.

Sampson's avatar

I would worry about it, but after a couple of weeks, it’d be nothing.

Berserker's avatar

If they brought home the cash, I’m sure that I’m shallow enough to overlook it.

I’m such an asshole. :)

phillis's avatar

As a person who ISN’T in the industry, yeah! I’d be struggling to find equilibrium. But I know me…..if I were in the industry, I would be the one pushing them for more realism.

Berserker's avatar

@phillis You and I should make our own porn film…

Darwin's avatar

If he would refrain from being jealous of my love scenes.

phillis's avatar

@Darwin Damn, that’s a tall order! What if you both accept it, but it takes one person a lot longer than the other? Yikes!

@Symbeline Anything for you, baby! I could do that and not even bat an eyelash. We’d still be excellent friends.

Berserker's avatar

@I wouldn’t even think of it twice. I feel the same way. :)

phillis's avatar

Cool! It’s nice to know we both love the friendship enough that it wouldn’t be affected. That’s pretty damned amazing when you think about it.

Berserker's avatar

@phillis I’m not saying it just to be funny either. I mean, porn is superficial am I right? Leave it to us to make it real. :)

phillis's avatar

I can’t promise how real it would be, but I can guarantee a realistic performance. You’re shallow as long as you’re paid, so it works :)

woodcutter's avatar

the main reason I quit going out with Jenna Jameson

ratboy's avatar

I date a porn star, but I don’t worry—she promises me that she’s thinking of me every time she’s guzzling some guy’s cum.

phillis's avatar

what a visual

JustPlainBarb's avatar

I don’t think so… I’d keep in mind that they’re just acting… and my guy will still be coming home to me.

OpryLeigh's avatar

Yes I would.

nebule's avatar

If I found myself jealous then I would seriously have to ask myself why I’m insecure…I can only think that it would be a representation of my feelings about myself

janbb's avatar

I would think a sine qua non would be the ability to not be jealous; otherwise you’re just being a masochist.

aprilsimnel's avatar

@lynneblundell – I agree with you. And if the actor himself is the sort of fellow who gets it on off-screen with everyone he does a love scene with (that is the fear of actors doing such scenes, isn’t it?) then he deserves to be free to do that.

Judi's avatar

I was in a play in college where I had this really long kiss scene while dialog was going on in the background. I would run my fingers through his hair and lift my right foot at the correct times during the dialog to get the right laugh.
I was so concerned about his girlfriend that I made sure I had a yucky tight lipped kiss, so he could go back and honestly tell her that he didn’t enjoy it.
Bad thing was, I guess more than his girlfriend found out. I didn’t have a boyfriend at that small college my entire College career. If I had it to do over again, I may have made sure he enjoyed it.

Tomfafa's avatar

What if you are sitting in a theater with her during her said scene and she starts glowing! And puts her hand down your pants and you start moaning… and everybody looks in your direction… and they realize that sitting next to you is the actor who is nude on screen… and start taking pictures with their camera phones… but you don’t want her to stop… so she keeps at it… and you get louder… and the whole theater gets into it… and they start cheering… and she makes a show of it… and you are screaming now… and the popcorn is flying, all buttery… and the ushers strategically shine their flashlights… and you climax in a glorious cecil b fashion… and the theater erupts in applause… I think I’ll keep her, thanks.

Zackyy's avatar

I bet most partners, husbands or wifes of movies stars don’t bother looking at those particular scenes.

Tomfafa's avatar

@lynneblundell That was just a little stretch… a slight stretch on the truth… but even the truth was wow.
@Zackyy You are correct.

nebule's avatar

well I’m jealous! lol

Tomfafa's avatar

@lynneblundell Sooo lynne, would you like to watch a movie with me?

nebule's avatar

@Tomfafa that’s just naughtiness!! but…yes please!

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Garry's avatar

Fucken hate them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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