I have been in love with my best friend for about 15 years now things could change maybe?
ok so i met her in the 7th grade (yes i know a long time ago) we lost contact for about 5 years and just recently got back in contact. i am 26 so we have known each other for around 15 years. we have been there for each others darkest hour and have laughed and cuddled and done things that best freinds do BUT, she knew back in the day that i had a huge crush on her but we both understood that she just wanted to be freinds and our relationship stay the way it was. now i am goin to visit her in about a month and she is so excited. my problem is that i still feel the same way about her that i used to except alot stronger and more passionate. now my problem is that she told me to not get upset if when we are drinking together if she trys to kiss me or maybe more. omg that is my biggest fantasy come true i mean i think aobut her constantly and now she tells me this. could she feel differently about me now?? possibly the same way i feel about her? i am so excited to go see her but i dont wanna get my hopes up about something happening that may not happen at all. any advice from anyone???
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Tell her how you feel. “It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.” – Ben Franklin
Or…luck favors the bold.
Yeah, if you still have feelings for her and she’s not repulsed by the idea of kissing or “maybe more“ing you, then there’s hope! Definitely tell her how you feel. This is your chance to convince her to at least try it out.
Or just get her drunk.
lol i plan on gettin us both drunk but not too much so that i wont remember
dude, learn to tease. if you go in there playing mr nice guy.. you’re going home with nothing.
Don’t be afraid to show your feelings but balance that with the caution required to avoid scaring her off. Be sweet and gently affectionate and use her responses to guage where to go next. Nothing is more attractive to her than your sincere interest in her and what makes her happy.
I hope your reunion is special for both of you.
You might as well go and ahead and fuck her…so many other people have. I’m sure she won’t compare or anything…
you got it bad brotha! Just be sly and let things play out the way they will. You know the deal, be yourself and make her laugh and where it leads is where it leads. You both will be excited about seeing each other, so I wouldn’t worry about being nervous at all. You two will pick up right where you left off. This is a situation where you cannot wait for it to happen and the anticipation is overwhelming. I have been in the same boat you have and trust me when you hear her mention something like that, she definitely wants a kiss and most likely more. Lets face it, she is probably horny and she knows you are a great guy. This may be your lucky chance. Like I said, you know what to do and you are not getting your hopes up. Have fun and let us know how it goes!
*you got it made, correction haha
Sounds like a Forest Gump/Jennie connection. Suggest you go shrimping first.
@Kelly_Obrien He better make sure his “Lt. Dan” still works before he goes “behind the lines”.
lol im 26 my “lt. dan ” works just fine thank you
just tell her how u feel and dont whine give her wat u and her want! u feel me?
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