@Dibley I have a favourite quote I read somewhere, probubly online, and copied it down so I wouldn’t forget it. It just made me smile on a not so good day.
“Any idiot can face a crisis… it’s the day to day living that can wear you out.”
Anton Checkov. Another favourite is:
“Courage does not always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the
day saying “I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Anne Radmacher
I’m really not strong at all honey, I cry far too much, i still feel sick when I’m outside sometimes, and the world scares me far more than it used to. I haven’t beaten the depression i know that because sometimes I can feel it creep back and it scares me, but i get up everyday, and then i concentrate really really hard on getting through it. Deal with whatever comes at me that day and try to get to bedtime, and then i get up again next day and do it all over again. I hope someday I won’t have to think about reaching the end of the day, and I think that’ll happen. Tilll then I’ll keep smiling like a slightly demented person with a hug complex lol. I do hug a lot I know, but i can’t help it, hugs make the world better i think, an unexpected hug can make the world a wee bit brighter on a bad day :-)
I think fluther is an amzing place because in the short time I’ve been here I’ve met all sorts of wonderful people, including you dear Dibley. We all have such a huge collection of different life experiences but everyone is willing to share things that maybe it would be difficult to share in the “real” world and that makes this such a unique place. People care here. There is always a kind ear to any problems, a hug available and some good common sense solutions offered. I love it here. I know it sounds really daft but having a good cry can make me feel better sometimes, and I tend to use it as a coping mechanism. A really nice nurse told me once, and I’ve never forgotten it, or her, that I should fight the battles I can win, I quote that back to myself on bad days and it helps. There is a song that I love, and feel free to laugh here, I’ve been a Barry Manilow fan for over 30 years I’m used to being mocked lol, but its a Barry song called “I made it through the rain” and it always makes me feel better. I never understood it really when i was young and silly but life has made it all too real. It starts “we dreamers have our ways, of facing rainy days, but somehow we survive.”
I do think you’re a strong person dear Dibley, and I also think you are a very kind person who has the sweetest personality. Be kind to yourself and learn to appreciate the good things about yourself that we can all see. You’re a lovely person and fluther is that bit better because you’ve joined and are a part of it. Mountains of love and hugs dear friend, xx