Would you guys think my bf is cheating on me?

I wouldn’t be overly suspicious of it unless you actually see him chatting up these girls or the likes. Every guy likes to look at the menu every once in a while, they’re just not always allowed to order from it ;)

@davids aww that is a very good point. Well I really hope he is not talking to them. Thank you so much. Nice answer!

Oh and I have also found out that most of the female friends he has on myspace are all Asian web cam whores….
with very revealing default pix…should I be worried? I hope he isn’t flirting with them…

He tells me he loves me every day and I am assuming since his last girl friend cheated on him…he wouldn’t want to make me feel the same way he did when she did that…

if youre going to worry about it, then yes.

They’re probably just trying to get attention. As long as he’s not getting himself involved with them in person, I’d say don’t worry about it.

But if you’re really upset, you should ask him about it.

@adinaa ah alright…I’ll probably ask him without sounding too suspicious….I’m not that upset.

I’ve been through an all boys high school so i know that for your bf the exposure to girls can become something which he can’t get enough of. I would just take it as a compliment that your bf is someone who gets so much attention from girls. Guys may go flirting around all day but at the end of the day they think about the one they truly love. So does he call you at night? Or does he seem reluctant to converse?

@Jayy he always calls me. From the second he wakes up til the second he goes to sleep. He even gets sad when I have to go (even to eat breakfast).
He always apologizes when he tells me to hold on when we are talking and he calls me when ever he has time (even if his dad is yelling like crazy at him).
He even skipped work to come and see me….so what does that sound like to you?

Sounds like you’re one lucky girl.

@Jayy aww really….? Yeah he even told me that I’m his dream girl…that I’m like family to him, and that he is really happy that he met me….
thank you for the shared experience (: so I guess I shouldn’t worry!

MySpace is full of dudes pretending to be whorish looking women. Actually, the whole Internet is. Come to think of it, I seriously suspect there are NO women on it.

@bolwerk oh really? Wow I did not know that….

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. My Space seem to be more about looking hoochie. Many times it is a contact collection game as to say the more peeps you have in your contacts the better or more popular you are, and if other people can see your network, if you are a guy, having hoochie/sexy looking gals littered all through it makes you seem hot. I would not worry unless you read something that says they are getting to familiar or he is flirting them at all.

i don’t really think its trust if you check his my space and he checks yours.
and if your feeling doubt its either because your intuition is telling you he’s not trust worthy for some reason or because you lack confidence in your self.
and also only 20% of marriages remain faithful to each other
and that’s lawful commitment

Almost everyone with a myspace account gets spammed with friend requests that are closely linked to sexually themed websites. I wouldn’t worry about it, it happens all the times. The only problem is that if he accepts their requests he is just asking for a nasty computer virus. Sleep easy.

Myspace? what’s that?

myspace=whores

You should not be checking any kind of account of his. It doesn’t matter that he gave you the information to access is. You should trust him. If you do not trust him, you should not be with him.

Guys have no control over girls throwing themselves at them on social networking sites.

Have him change his password, and not give it to you. Quit snooping. There’s a saying, “eavesdroppers never hear well about themselves.” That extends to snooping. Snoopers only see things that cause them to question relationships. Distrust creates a bad relationship. Snooping gains you nothing positive.

MySpace only has value for musicians. It’s expected that musicians have a MySpace page as a demo site. For social use, the demographics for MySpace vs Facebook skews lower income, lower education for MySpace. I know, the odds are on Facebook you’ll have to friend your mom.

I haven’t read through all the responses (sorry) but the last time I used MySpace I was getting tons of friend requests from sex bots. If he doesn’t have conversations in the mail section, just friend requests, then I would just chalk it up to that.

@Violet I know what myspace is ;P as @PandoraBoxx said…. I’m a musician, lol.

For one, I completely agree with @PandoraBoxx. If you trusted him do you think you would be snooping? It sounds like nothing, but stupid myspace BS e.g. what @mrentropy said anyway. If these girls are requesting him, well good for him, lol. By no means does this mean anything other than that. Start trusting him or move on, otherwise I don’t see this lasting.

friendship request from girls mean nothing, if he doent have his myspace settings changed to private he will get them, its no big deal it .happens all of the time…

I have a myspace account, and get request almost daily from people I don’t know, and a lot are girls wearing only the minimum requirements.

Once they are accepted as friends, never hear from them again.

“We both exchanged myspace emails and passwords so we trust eachother.”

LOL. Sounds like there are some trust issues if both you two have to constantly check in on each other

Agreed! @Violet…

@mass_pike4 oh woopsies…didn’t think about it like that. Scratch that then.

Well thanks everybody. That’s all the answers I need…I guess I’ll delete this question now..Happy new years!