How to take proper initiative when a girl likes you?

just be you. that’s all you can do

^ i hate that kind of advice, personally.

search google, youtube or your favorite book store for material on picking up girls, getting to know people, how to small talk, how to be a leader, how to influence people, how to be persuasive, and how to make friends.

at the end of the day its all the same : )

just sounds like bad communication here, if either party likes each other and feels sure of it, say so!

@trailsillustrated you’re still yourself even after you do some research. ;)

Smile at her. Go out of your way to walk with her. Ask her questions about her interests. Listen.

1. Just do it.
2. Dont be afraid to touch them lightly (shoulders etc). It sets a good tone, and gives you confidence when you notice them reacting.
3. Just do it.
4. Be a man. Do it.
5. Just – do – it.

Catch my drift? I think the mistake i used to do was overthinking it. Don’t think too much about it, if you think it’s time, dont let your questioning mind get a foot in the door, and just do it. If you try to soon – no harm is done and she will let you know either she’s not interested or not ready – no problem, (back off, don’t be an asshole, and dont take it like an asshole, just keep conversation going like nothing happened).
Now she knows you are interested too and it’s not a big deal if she said no, she knows what you want and you’ve proven you can take the initiative – nothing to be ashamed of (wow, big surprise, you are interested in girls. I don’t know why i used to be so scared of showing girls that i liked girls – it used to be a big blocker for me, i dont know if it’s a problem for you too).

If you try too late – she will already have written you off. You see there is a time window. If you try too early, it’s no biggie, but if you try too late – the door is closed forever.

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