What would your reaction be if your significant other proposed to you during sex?

hahhaahXD I think its a big odd…you kknow? I think its the wrong time..i would say afterwads;D

Wouldn’t want that. Would wonder if it was just the sexual feeling, caught up in the moment or a real proposal

It would depend on where he had the ring stashed!!

I would not consider it a serious proposal.

@TLRobinson
Yea that would be my only concern about the timing.

I agree with @TLRobinson , it’s the wrong time. I would think they were caught up in the moment rather than a serious proposition that was thought through appropriately.

It wouldn’t exactly be a story for your future grandchildren.. lol

Would you stop? Keep going? Say yes or no? Tell them they are not thinking clearly? And what if they were serious? Would you be mad they proposed to you that way?

Cum on can a guy not have his fun without you spoiling it. Easy baby let me finish it’s rude to interrupt.

I think it would not be the best time, because it can be taken not so seriously (something they said in the heat of the moment), and you would have to stop what you are doing to give an answer – and with that spoiling the moment.
Maybe popping the question right after the fact would be better, and a great excuse to go for round 2 to celebrate!

@nayeight- I would wait to complete the act, come off the sexual high, shower and cloth; then discuss. Nothing is sensible when you’re in the throughs of hot sex; and obviously it was/is or there wouldn’t have been a proposal.

You just need to make sure it’s you he’s hooked on and not the sex (which can be addictive).

if its just sex i think its the wrong time. however if its during a romantic love making session with all the cliche candles and rose petals and what not then i would have no problem with it.

I’d probably just keep repeating what I was saying before he asked teehee =)

I’d come and go as quickly as possible.

Haha, don’t worry, it didn’t happen to me. I had a very strange dream that it happened though, there were people all around the bed staring at us while we were doing it, he proposed, I said no and then we kept going with everyone there watching. It was really weird. :/

Would it be a deal-breaker for the relationship if your SO proposed during sex, and then afterwards said he didn’t mean it?

It depends on whether or not I wanted to marry them.

I’d have to tell her I’d be right home, then I’d hang up the phone. BOOM BOOM.

But seriously…............ it would depend on what had been discussed previously. Maybe the sex is just what’s needed to get the question out.
And agree with @nayeight 100%.
Would be an unusual end to a lovemaking episode if they asked and you had to say no….........

I would immediately realize that it is time for me to start having sex with someone else.

It’s not how I would want to be proposed to, but like @poisonedantidote said, if it’s a love making session as opposed to fucking then I guess it might be ok. Still, there are much better times to propose that I think are more romantic. Sex ≠ romance (not every time at least).

Hmmm no I don’t think its okay. I mean when your making love/having sex of course you want that person for ever who doesn’t feel this emotion. But, does he or she feel the same way the next morning? Is it a rational thought, or heat of the moment decision. Ifs hes serious about it he would give it a lot of thought and propose when hes not in the moment.

I don’t have an s/o, but during sex, my partner is more than likely gagging and choking, and is in no position to say anything, let alone a marriage proposal…

That is like proposing after a few 40’s of Old English and a couple tabs of X. I wouldn’t take it seriously.

My initial reaction would be. DAM I’M GOOD! Then I would wonder if he was hoping to slip it in there before I yelled in the throws of sex, Yes! Yes! Yes!

Would it matter whether the proposer was kneeling at the time?

I can get my husband to agree to anything during sex, and depending on what it is…I hold him to it. lol
I would have found it weird if he proposed during sex. Definitely not ideal..I mean, where is he pulling the ring out of??

@ratboy Now thats funny. LOL

I would not think he was serious. I would think it was one of those “Oh, you’re obsessed with teenage mutant ninja turtles and flossing too? will you marry me?” types of moments. like WOW THINGS ARE GREAT i’m going to jokingly ask for your hand in marriage. i think it would be weird. no thanks.

I prefer having a person ask AFTER norepinephine returns to normal values in the brain.and when the penis is not hard :)

I would be so pissed! He knows I want to be proposed to in a semi-public place. I had a dream that he proposed to me in front of a public bathroom, and I told him my dream, and then I set some boundaries for a proposal. So he knows that I don’t want him to propose to me at home.. or by a bathroom! lol

@phillis but then he’s pointing to you and you know he means YOU! :)

Bah-ha-ha-ha-ha!! It ain’t polite to point!

@Violet Why in a public place?Are you wanting to get married only because of all the attention you’ll get for it? If you truly love someone, it shouldn’t matter whether an audience witnesses the proposal or not.

what can I say. some people don’t have manners. :)

@ItalianPrincess1217 I would like it to be at a family dinner, so yes, and audience would be lovely. And how I want to be proposed to is no concern of yours.

@Pandora You can say that again! But don’t. It’s off topic :)

Well, I’ve already asked someone out while I was having sex with my ex. So I suppose proposal would just be one up from that.

@Violet I took “public place” as somewhere with lot of people you don’t know. A family dinner seems nice. I would just hope that if the man of your dreams chose to purpose in a completely secluded place with no other people around, that you wouldn’t be disappointed.

@ItalianPrincess1217 He knows better. We’ve talked about it.

I now have a boyfriend who might actually be able to get away with that. However, I’m pretty sure he’s respectful enough to the point that he’d ask at a more appropriate time if he ever does.

During intercourse, no thanks but afterward and with a ring produced not from an orifice would be fine ;p

I would laugh and say, “You need to get some things figured out about right times and places,” and then I would make sure the proposal took place in a more appropriate venue.

It’s the wrong time to ask that.

My response was…not exactly said this way…“My answer will be no, unless you ask me at a more appropriate time.”