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Is it ok to wear my wedding/engagement ring set on my right hand until our wedding day?

Asked by sue59 (1points) January 4th, 2010

When my fiance purchased my wedding ring “set” we had them soldered right away. But now in reconsidering I think we shouldn’t have done that yet. So is it ok to wear the set on my right hand until the wedding day rather than the left?

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faye's avatar

It’s your ring and your hands. I would wear them on my left hand if I wanted to.

jamcanfi74's avatar

I don’t see why it would be a big deal if you wore them on your right hand but they will be stratched up by the time of the wedding. Personaly, I would wait untill the wedding but it is all up to you. Afterall, it is your wedding,your rings and your finger.

TheCreative's avatar

Your title should be the description and your description should be your title :P

fireinthepriory's avatar

Do you have a fill-in ring that you could wear on your left hand till your wedding day? That’s what I would do. That way people know you’re engaged, but it doesn’t look like you’re already married.

Austinlad's avatar

I say, do what you like. “Traditions” should be flexible, and YOU should be comfortable. You know you’re getting married. He knows you’re getting married. The families know. The guests know. Whichever finger or hand you wear the ring on isn’t going to change that.
Be happy, and best of luck.

elizabethmae's avatar

I would either go with out the ring or get a fill in as mentioned above.

Haleth's avatar

I’ve seen an ad campaign called “Women of the world, raise your right hand.” Jewelery companies are trying to promote diamond rings to single woman by saying that a wearing a ring on the right ring finger is a sign of power and independence, and that women can treat themselves by buying one. It’s a great message (even though they’re using it to sell diamonds.) Just something to think about.

ItalianPrincess1217's avatar

I was wondering this same thing! We’re having my rings done before the wedding and wasn’t sure what to do until the actual wedding day. I think you should do whatever you’re most comfortable with. I think I’ll just wear mine on my left hand. I don’t want to be bare for weeks!

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