NSFW: Kinky sex ideas?
Me and my girlfriend are very open to exploring new fetishes and types of kinky sex. It’s the first time in both of our lives that we’ve found someone else just as freaky as ourselves, so we are eager to try any and everything (except including other people).
We already tie each other up and blindfold each other on a regular basis. We’ve played with ice and penetration with different objects. We tease each other to the edge of orgasm then stop multiple times almost every time we make love.
So, we are looking for new and exciting ideas. Anyone have any suggestions?
Also, my favorite kinky thing is sex slave roleplay, but since I never got to experience it with anyone before, I am lost on ideas of how to play it right. Other than being dominated and talked down to during sex, how else can we incorporate the slave/master roleplay into our sex life?
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get outside! it’s a wide world, enjoy it~ just be careful about being too obvious, nothing squashes the mood like a mandatory court appearance.
Do sexy outfits and roleplaying, like a naughty secretary or pretend to break into the house and do her lol.
you’re both female right?
BDSMLibrary.com is an amazing and very informative website for D/s relationships and play. There are TONS of kinky ideas and oodles of great people to talk to :D Everyone is very open and welcoming, don’t be shy and explore ^.^ i hope you find a whole new big world that excites the pants off you both!!
I know it did for me and my SO ;)
You can pretend that you are both 60, and that you have bad knees and she has bad hips.
Fetlife.com
And, having me come over and watch you both. That is kinky! :-)
@wonderingwhy We’ve messed around in the car and the movie theater, but we have to be careful – I don’t want a sex offense on my record.
@hug_of_war Yes, we are both female.
@pdworkin We already do. Her legs hurt from working for 10 hours a day and my back hurts from holding the baby.
@syz The link doesn’t work for me…
Interesting. After a delay, my links stop working. I wonder if it’s because it’s adult content?
Read some x-rated amateur fiction online. There ought to be some lively ideas there.
Visit a dungeon and see what others are doing that looks interesting.
Take a class. There are some. A friend of mine who is really into kinky stuff keeps me posted on what goes on in her world. She sent me a link to a domme class given by a lady with a considerable reputation in the BDSM scene.
Join one of the many organizations that sponsor kinky events. Even if there’s none in your area, you can get links and get on e-lists.
Read a book. Here’s one that’s pretty interesting. It also has some useful information about safety.
@syz I copied & pasted the link and it worked. strange.
Buy yourself these items.
Riding crop.
Blind Fold.
Silk Rope.
Body Tape.
KY Massaging warming body oils rule! You can buy the sampler and should!
A strobe light and good music….
Oh @stemnyjones – vibrators, crops, clthes you don’t care about if they get Ripped or cut off the Subs body. clothes pins for sensory but then put a string under each and with practice take them off all at once- but try laying down because it’s a Rush. note- Wife and I are very Kinky…
Remember to just use the feathers. Using the chicken is perverted.
@stemnyjones Wow, it was brave of you to ask that! GQ.
True Lust by Tristan Taormino is a great book. It’s an interesting read because it’s not just a guidebook, it’s all stories of things she actually did. She’s kinky but her interests go beyond BDSM, and she’s very openminded when it comes to gender and sexuality.
@stemnyjones wireless controled vibrator for one, wireless control for the other; then pick a nice restaurant.
For the Mistress/slave roleplay, I echo the suggestion of doing some reading on the subject before diving in. You can read together or to each other, I did that with an ex and read her the Beauty series by Ann Rice (published under a pseudonym that I can’t recall at the moment). It was really hot and we both got turned on, so enjoyable for both. If you get a book or read some BDSM erotica, you should get plenty of ideas!
I admit I’m very into kink; it’s not a requirement, as I do enjoy making love “vanilla” style, but I love me some kink. Some things I really enjoy are spanking/paddling/whipping, orgasm control (not being allowed to orgasm until the the top says so), being tied up and blindfolded, having the top direct the sexual activities, biting (I like a little bit of pain), being marked by my top with love bites.. that’s all I can think of off the top of my head.
@Jeruba Screw the Roses is considered a classic beginner text.
If you plan to play, make sure that you learn how to play safely. Nothing ruins a mood (and sometimes a relationship) like an injury.
I’m sorry i can’t really contribute as my experience is limited to a few public places… but this is by far my favorite question so far. KUDOS.
I have an urge to contribute, but I’m realizing now that I’m far too boring and don’t know the first thing about it. Good luck!
I have been teaching a master/slave training course for several years, it is geared toward male/female, but you may be able to convert it, or at least some of it.
I always liked Richard Pryor’s idea. “I want you to climb up on the roof. I’m gonna run around the house three times and on the third time… I want you to jump off on my face!”
@stemnyjones ; Just because the Two of you want to share such an Adventure is wonderful! Just things as simple as Topping and Tickling your Bottom until she turns red can be addictive But if she wiggles too much you Stop and get the ropes and tell her “I am tired of your disobedience so now you need to be restrained!”. And then continue but linger at the most promising and reactive spots ignoring the pleads (remembering your Safe word!)...
@ubersiren ... just pipe up with whatever you can think of!
Thanks everyone!
She was always kind of worried that she would do something kinky to me and I would think she was a weirdo, but I had her read a lot of the websites that you guys suggested and damn, she got kinky fast!
But keep the ideas coming!
@wonderingwhy, Your suggestion is my favorite so far – we were just talking about that yesterday. It would be so hot for her to use a wireless toy on me in public… but all I can find are remote controlled vibrating dildos.
Can someone find a remote-controlled sex toy on the web that is for the clit only, and doesn’t penetrate? Lots of lurve if you can help. <3
@stemnyjones remote control vibrating panties.
Also Trojan makes something called the Vibrating touch which is more suited to being close and the danger aspect of doing something in public.
Enjoy.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! @stemnyjones – You might likely be Done Good… sounds like she’s out of the closet of Kink (shivers at the idea you guys have discovered new heights for your relationship)...
@Dr_C omg, that commercial with the girls whispering about the Vibrating Touch and the old librarian chiming in is creepy..
@phil196662 I was so surprised, because she’s such a sweet, nice girl… then she starts telling me all this freaky shit she used to do to pleasure herself when she was younger… then she breaks out the dog’s pinch collar and a knife! I was like DAMN GIRL! lmao!
Cutting and the like and the Pinching Dog collar- not for me. As far as the sensations of cutting though I’ll pass on the knife and suggest some “Play Piercing” for the two of you! a literal way to get under each others skin! Been doing sense I was 12— Oooooo- just thinking about it!
look at this @stemnyjones ; http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Play_piercing
@phil196662 We don’t really cut eachother – it’s just the excitement of being tied up with the collar on and having the knife run softly across your body – it’s about domination more than it is about pain. And she likes piercings, so I’ll definitely show that to her.
There used to be a wearable vibrator called “the hummingbird” (now that I think of it, I think there is also a “butterfly”) that was for clit stimulation and could be controlled remotely.. On my iPod so I can’t link, but the non-penetrative ones are out there.
@MissAnthrope I’ll definitely check on the hummingbird. I’ve seen the butterfly ones, but the ones I’ve seen have penetration stimulation attached.. I’ll search google when my internet is working fast enough again.
Ahhh, the cold metal thing! @stemnyjones – Try some metal spoons, good for a Twack if needed or the tines of a fork… let me know pvt about the play piercing if you want tips!
@MissAnthrope No need to post any of the sex toys now, btw, we did end up finding and ordering one. Waiting anxiously for it to come in the mail. ;)
Oh Please tell me??? Rubs your side like a Cat…
@stemnyjones ; You better adapt it for a wall outlet and be sure to Service it- and the Wiggle from the wearer—- yeeeeeeoooowwww… Have fun!
Perhaps Two with the Other holding the remote.
@phil196662 I’m sorry, I don’t understand anything you just said.
That’s ok @stemnyjones ; It works on batteries that wear out so you adapt it to plug in the wall and run limitless…
Hard core bondage? Or Japanese bondage rope.
Me! Always Hard Core- escape is not an option!
@Violet Well, somewhere in between. I’d say light bondage. We use restraints and do include some physical pain, but mostly a lot of humiliation.
@stemnyjones I don’t like pain either, but we’re also not into humiliation. We use bondage for teasing, and dom/sub role play. Have you tried new kinds of restraints? I just bought this. You may like something like this or this
Oh @Violet – you would love our coffee table in the living room! Metal rings on the side and a padded table surface under a removable top for those times when immediate restraint of a naughty guest is needed…
And I have some of those neoprene ones as well as the pumps, they get the tissue up…
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