Do you think your s/o is the most sexiest person ever?

remembering your other questions and question details, he doesn’t at all sound like he’s perfect but maybe you’re having a better morning which is good, :) I wish you all the best
My partners is very sexy, to me. I think he is the sexiest out of all others yes but I do find others sexy as well. He is a different kind of sexy than Belucci or Jolie, for example.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir He is perfect, it’s me that isn’t, me that is the needy one. Thank you for your answer.

@Dibley oh, well I’m sure it takes two people to make it difficult, no? isn’t he the one who never said ‘i love you’?

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Yes he has never said it, but he took me into his home when a month later I was made redundant and I’m still here. He is more than perfect, yes, I want him to say he loves me and one day I hope he does.

@Dibley as do I

Yes, my SO is the sexiest, most wonderful person alive. Since being with him I haven’t found anyone else attractive (apart from the odd celebrity) because I compare everyone to him!

If this person has this strong of an effect on you, find a minister and get married. it may not ever happen again in your lifetime.

@Leanne1986 So do I and no one has ever come close.

@john65pennington Oh he really does! I would love to get married, he just has to ask. Thanks for your answer.

Has he ever told you that he loves you? just wondering.

You can’t follow me very much if you have to ask that! :-)

the sexiest, not even close; but there’s something about love which blinds you to the faults. It’s really remarkable, because on one level you know that person isn’t perfect, in fact may not even be close, but when you’re with them something just “clicks” and none of that matters, all you can see is how wonderful they are and revel in how brilliant it makes the world around you.

At the same time, love can also blind you and cloud your judgement to the extent that you don’t see what’s right in front of you leaving you blindsided in the most painful way when you least expect it.

Regardless, good luck and enjoy the moment, here’s hoping he feels the same way about you.

@wonderingwhy Thank you. What a beautiful answer.

@Dibley why does he have to ask?

@delta214 I don’t really understand that, but that is what happens, he has to propose.

@Dibley Cheers to your strong idealist angle, but you might help plant the seed in his mind. As you and he walk by a jewlery store or a bridal shop see if you can get him to stop and look at wedding related items without mentioning marriage. Sounds like if you throw out there the M word, it might scare him,but if you put the idea in his head, he might come around. We guys don’t do real well with sublety, so it might take some work, but you’re obviously crazy about him, an he’s been with you this long, he should know what he wants. Good luck.
@wonderingwhy You hit that one out of the Park.

@Adirondackwannabe Thank you, you are so sweet.

@Dibley Careful, I’m supposed to be a macho American male. There’s an added chuckle if you could see me. I’m wearing my lilac colored shirt my g/f got me for Christmas.

@Adirondackwannabe That’s even sweeter. Think your girlfriend has got a good man in you.

@Dibley Your guy made out pretty well also.

@Thanks, he is a very special man.

All you delusional people who think your SO is the sexiest man alive have clearly not met my husband. ;) He might not seem like the hottest guy around at first glance. He’s kind of short and on the scrawny side, and right now he really needs a haircut. His nose is crooked from being broken a few too many times. However, he has the most wicked sense of humor I’ve ever encountered, is brimming with confidence and determination, and never lets anyone tell him what he can’t do. He’s also a wonderful father. Darn it, he just gets sexier and sexier as time goes on! We’ve been married for over 11 years, and I’ve never met anyone like him.

He’s kept me for 13 years, have 3 kids together…..I think so.

Not at all. Luckily being voted sexiest person on earth is not one of the pre-requisites for a good s/o.

@MissAusten Sexyness always comes from within. Our society focuses so much on looks, demands women look like those scrawny fashion models, it’s a wonder we manage at all. And I for one am not at all attracted to the fashion model look. If I wanted to hold a boys body in my arms I’d go gay. Hey Babyblue. I made it over to here. Staying warm in tropical SD?

Good for you, Dibley! I think my husband is pretty damn sexy. It’s more than his looks alone that make me think that.

@ubersiren I have never gone out with a man for looks. But when I met Paul I was instantly attracted and when I spoke to him for the first time I just fell in love. He’s so funny, caring and he really looks after . I’m hooked!

Woops, I may have to surrender my nads. I just realized I’m sitting here chatting with a bunch of chicks about relationships while wearing a lilac colored shirt.

@Adirondackwannabe Your girlfriend will be pleased to know. You are really funny.

No, I don’t. My partner is very sexy, quite handsome, has gorgeous lips, smells wonderful, and definitley turns me on. Definitely not the sexiest person in the world, or even the sexiest person I’ve met in the past 6 months. But damn, I love him with my mind, heart, and body and wouldn’t trade him for the world.

Gone now, but will always be everthing to me. I worshipped her.

@Dibley delighted to see you happier ((hugs))

Objectively? Not by miles and miles. But perfect for me. I wouldn’t change her, rearrange her, or trade her for whomever tops the world’s list.

To me, he is perfect. I wouldn’t change anything about him. I was going to say the same thing as @pdworkin, however, objectively, I’m sure he is not the sexiest person I’ve ever seen. But if this question was about if they are the cutest person ever, I think I could definitely say that. I have seen so many cute guys in my 18 years, but there is no one who ranks above my boyfriend. It’s really quite amazing that I am actually going out with the person I thought was the cutest person in the universe all throughout middle school and high school. And not only is his physical appearance extremely cute, his personality is as well. It’s a winning combination.

But yeah, I have never been this attracted to someone before; he pretty much does drive me crazy. :)

Which is part of the reason why being 200 miles away from him most of the time drives me crazy as well! :(

@stranger_in_a_strange_land I’m not happier on the inside, but on the outside I’m having a reasonable day. I know you worshipped Meghan and she was lucky to have had you in her life.

Yes my SO is the sexiest to me.

Oh yes I think so most definitely. But I find other men and women sexy too, but his sexiness is just right for me.

@Dibley ; He must Love you very much and shows it with each Meal he makes for you, the Gaze across the table or while sleeping he rubs your back and then makes you “Purrrr” as he gets those pleasure spots knowing exactly When you let you go over the edge into Wiggledom!

Uh, not quite. I find her to be really quite sexually attractive. But I do think it’s possible that someone could be just so hot that I’d literally drool from seeing them. Alas, she doesn’t do that. Which is probably a good thing, since I get the feeling it may have scared her off. And I’m odd enough as is.

Also <insert rant about mechanisms to ignore feelings for previous partners to always give the illusion of ‘this is the one’>.

I adore my wife and to me there is no one more sexually attractive or more delightful to be with than she is.

I don’t care if other men don’t know it or notice her. In fact, I prefer that other men have no idea how sexy she really is.

No. My wife’s 2nd cousin is the sexiest person ever.

Ummm, no – to be honest sexy is not a very important trait with us. In fact, his previous grilfriend broke up with because of the incompatability, and it was a serious issue with my former husband before I lost him, also.

@filmfann ; Agreed! particularly when her skirt was blown over her head in a movie in the- I think 1960’s???

@phil196662 He doesn’t make me meals, I like to be the one in the kitchen and the one looking after him. Although he can make me purr!

@Dr_Lawrence That is so nice to read, really sweet.

Teach him to cook and share the time in the kitchen @Dibley ? he can make you something that makes you Purrr and then make you Purr More after! Nothing prettier than a mate with Tomato Sauce dribble when checking the sauce! lick lick…

@Dibley Do you have a sister in the US? Oops, in trouble with the gf again.

@Adirondackwannabe No, I don’t have a sister anywhere actually. What colour shirt are you wearing today?!

@Dibley is more than a pretty woman. She is sensitive and desperately wants to be happy. She will find a way to change her life for the better.

@Dibley How about purple with black stripes. Purple is supposed to be a gay colour (I like the english spelling) but screw it, I’m comfortable with my sexuality, and my girl likes the colour.

@Dr_Lawrence Thank you, what a nice thing to say, and sad as it looks, it’s very true.

@Adirondackwannabe English spelling of what? Purple and Black go well together and if your girlfriend likes it then that’s great.

@Dibley Colour. We spell it color. Then we do a lot of strange things. Oh well. I thought the Dr’s diagnosis was right on. You ladies do realize it’s not easy for us guys to dive into some of these issues. We have to open up quite a bit to discuss that r word. (relationships)

@Adirondackwannabe and realise!

@Dibley Sabre and Saber. The list goes on. I wish there was a way I could take away some of your hurt. There should be something we could come up with on this site to send across to someone else to help them out when they need it. Instead of a ga, just a hug. Here’s yours.

@Adirondackwannabe Thank you so much, I really needed that.

Here’s a hug for you too @Dibley

@Dr_Lawrence Thank you

@Dibley No-one is perfect, you have to believe that, yes, you have some flaws, but he does too, everyone does. It’s an artificial dichotomy to place yourself as the “bad” one and him as the “good” one. As @Simone_De_Beauvoir said, it takes two to make things difficult. And this is not about blaming him, but more about blaming yourself less. I haven’t read that much but I can see that this is an unhealthy and worrying way to look at a relationship. You have to believe within yourself that you are good enough, worthy of someone who loves you and is able to show it. Trust me when I say that I have had my share of unhealthy relationships, and sometimes they can’t be “fixed”, as the basis upon which they are founded is faulty on both parts.

I wish you strength and peace.