I am going to an engagement party this weekend for a couple that I don't know too well, but would really like to get something for them..any suggestions?

If they drink I’ve always found glassware to be appropriate. Something nice (think crystal or cut glass) but not too nice, so they can use it daily.

A bottle of good wine. You can never have too much wine.

A picture frame with the date there getting married

It all depends on how much your willing to spend. But money orders never are under appreciated. Weddings are expensive and money always helps. I always give money. This way if there are things they need they can buy it later or use it on the honeymoon.

How about Journal Books to record their thoughts about this season in their lives. They would be so happy they had done it in 20 years.

An assortment of coffee, tea and the accoutrement that go with same. It’s good because almost everyone drinks coffee or tea and since it is a consumable gift, it won’t take up space in their house.

A gift card to a restaurant or wine bar. Getting married is really stressful, a free meal (or portion of one) for the two if them will probably be really appreciated. And, since it’s not just money, it will help make them go out and relax.

The other option is a couples massage. My wife and I got a gift certificate for that at her shower and it was amazing. Highly recommended.

@KatawaGrey ; That’s like the third time I have read the word “accoutrement” on fluther today. Is it on some word of the day calendar?

@Judi: Really? I guess we’re all just feeling extra French/intellectual today!

Nothing says awesome like gift cards from stores you know they will need when they get married. Or perhaps giftcards to some nice restaurants :) those have always worked for me.

An engagement party is not a bridal shower. You are not obligated to bring a gift for the engaged couple unless you’re particularly close to them.

That being said, a nice gift would be two champagne flutes to be used as toasting glasses at their wedding.