[NSFW] Oral Sex: Why do you or don't you?

Because we’re both consensual adults in a committed relationship who both happen to find that particular pleasure fucking awesome. Blows our minds~

Honestly, for me it’s the biggest turn on. Giving my girl pleasure in turn drives me crazy. I love everything about it. The taste, the way that her hips buck up against my mouth, hearing her moan while she holds my head in place inbetween her thighs. That, and using the strap-on on her..(I had the biggest orgasm that way).

I was a little unsure the first few times, but when you see the response, Holy S**t.

With all previous boyfriends, I hated the thought of it, never once did it. But with this one I do it quite a lot and love it. I love that he is loving it. I love the pleasure it gives him. I love having him in mouth, I even think about doing and text him at work telling him I want him. I can’t believe the turnaround in me.

@Dibley Okay, now I’m supposed to be a productive “member” of society with that going thru my mind?

The personal chemistry and such has to be right, but when it is, it’s probably my favorite thing to do. Giving my partner pleasure and getting her turned on gets me so hot! Besides that aspect, I really enjoy the feel and the taste.. if all conditions are perfect, I could seriously do it for hours if she’d let me.

(I pretty much second @jmah‘s answer)

I’m a fan of pink meat

The fact that I like it should be obvious. Being able to do that to a guy is both empowering and fun. Even more so if I can catch him at a surprising time. I love doing that. The expression on his face as it occurs to him what is happening is delightful. Addictive, really.

The act is, in general, just fun. It’s hot, it’s amusing. I think it probably stems from the natural attraction to cock (penis = anatomical, cock = sexual) in general. I love everything about it. How could I not just want to feel it with my tongue? How could I not want to just wrap my lips around it? It’s so hard and warm and soft all at once.

There’s probably also a degree of the fact that I really really when a guy is hard because of me. Being able to take credit for that is totally flattering, and completely plays to my mischievous side that leads me to giggle and want to do it more and more. I like it so much that I’d almost go as far as to call it a fetish, but because biologically I am probably programmed to be attracted to that, I’m not sure if it qualifies.

Hate to give, love to get.

I think it is because I am a selfish prick.

Personal choice and preference, based on your feelings, desires, trust, comfort level.

Don’t rule it out without trying it.

@delirium Okay, you worry about him getting bored while you squirm and moan, and then you put that out there, and you ladies wonder why guys are obsessed with sex? I may have to shut something in my desk drawer a few times.

(I don’t wonder why they’re obsessed, I only wonder why they haven’t realized we are too.)

Slam, Slam, Slam

I am so obsessed with sex. My boyfriend says I’m insatiable. I could have it all day, everyday.

Okay, so what would make you guys who love doing it, not want to do it to someone?

@chelseababyy If they weren’t clean.

@chelseababyy If she didn’t play ball & threw me some action back. Well it goes both ways.

I’ve never come across one that I didn’t enjoy, but I suppose a yeast or other infection would generate some bad taste or odor. Look at it from a guys perspective: Your letting my lie between your legs so I can view your entire body and then I get to kiss what makes you a woman. And I get to watch you get your rocks off. Whats the down side?

I actually preferred giving than recieving. Giving my lady pleasure in that way was one of my greatest pleasures. move slowly towards the target and don’t forget simultaneous stimulation of the G-Spot. The wonderful thing with a lady is that she can have repeated orgasms. We could go for hours, I wouldn’t even think about “my turn” until she’d had at least three.

I do it…. why? Because I want to arouse her. Because the smell of her sex turns my body into a blazing vibrant sensation. Because when her legs are wide open and her knees are up and she is pushing at my mouth and moaning, I know she has lost her mind to her body and that she is in an incredible place. Because when my lips and tongue work their way, so gently yet urgently around her labia towards her clitoris, she really starts to lose it. Her thighs clamp my head. She pushes against my mouth, smothering me, and because when she cums, she screams my name and grabs my head and she begs me to fuck her, and because I can make her cum five and ten times in a row, and every time she does, there’s something inside me—a little baby kind of me—that stops crying and start to burble and then smile, and then relax because at last I have a home—a person who needs me like I need her; a person who will not and can not ever leave me because we are both hooked on each other in the best possible way. That’s what I want. That’s something I’ll never have. And that makes my stomach fall into that foaming ocean below.

All of you ladies that wonder why a guy would do it, hows that for your answer?

@chelseababyy Only “heavy days” of her period, but those were the “cuddle and massage” days. We learned a few tricks to help her cramping, massage techniques.

I’ve been hooked since the first time. It’s extremely gratifying to make men squirm teehee

@daloon Fabulous answer! UberGA!!

I don’t like it and luckily I don’t have to do it any more. I don’t like it because I was forced to to do it for years…and swallow…and quite frankly that kinda screws with your head

@lynneblundell That sucks. Sorry, that’s not the way I intended that to start out, but that’s what was going thru my head. Forcing someone to do something they don’t want to do just, pause, sucks. I have never been able to get my head around that. Someone whos into it is so much better. Here’s a smile for you to use however you want to.

Isn’t this the 3rd such question in a week?

Sounds like someone’s got serious oral fixation!

@lynneblundell Forcing someone to do that is despicable. This is supposed to be an act of love, not some domination head-game (no pun intended).

I actually wasn’t expecting to like giving. Even though I always pictured myself as being more submissive, I thought it was going to gross me out and that I wouldn’t like it at all. But that’s not how it turned out.

Luckily I don’t have to repeat what @delirium said, but she pretty much expresses my exact reasons for liking it. It’s so hard and warm and soft all at once. Good quote. And of course, the whole business of being responsible for the pleasure. I really like that.

Now, of course, neither my boyfriend nor I is totally dom/sub. Our relationship is not like that; we alternate.

I love being able to answer all these NSFW relationship questions now. Makes me feel awesome and so grown up. :)

I so appreciate that you understand, Dominic!

I do it because she likes it. I like that she likes it… so yeah.. I like it.

once again thank you @stranger_in_a_strange_land

Do, as many times as possible as an excuse to get our clothes off.

Wow. Until I read this thread I didn’t know women performed oral.

Aww, sorry @TheLoneMonk.

I like it for the reasons @delirium listed. But, I’m also not a fan of doing it. It’s a rare thing that I am willing to do it. It’s more of a joke now with my husband, that it happens on special occasions…but I do find it fun to surprise him.

I absolutely love giving. I’m male, by the way. I really rather enjoy the taste and feeling reactions as I make my way around.

In other news, receiving is pretty good too.

I do it honestly becuas i LOVE the taste of my girl’s *****. Not all of them taste the same, i hated doing it to my ex becuase it just tasted NASTY…bitch didnt clean the right way.

ladies if your man doesnt like to do it. Its either becuase he doesnt like doing it, OR YOU JUST DONT WASH RIGHT.

I do and I really enjoy doing it, it’s a pretty reliable way for me to also become physically aroused… most of the time. There have been times in my life I didn’t want to unless the lights were out and it was really dark because heaven forbid if I got caught by my man looking awkward or ugly. Anymore I just relax and go with it, pretty sure he doesn’t care much if I look pretty or not while I’m down there ;p

@bigboss it’s not about washing with girls, but is actually about what she eats and what time of the month it is. Vaginas are self cleaning.

Love to give and get.

I second @delirium. This has always been my, um, specialty. ;)
The only reason I wouldn’t would be the cleanliness factor, or I felt nauseous for some other reason. Despite the fetish videos, I don’t think gagging and vomiting during the act is at all desirable.

@hungryhungryhortence The look on my girl’s face is the last thing I am concerned with at that point. When she starts bucking and moaning I’m concentrating on the job, so I haven’t really noticed what she’s looking like, but now you’ve made me curious. I don’t think she could look anything other than beautiful, but I’m biased.l

@Adirondackwannabe: That’s wonderful of you, she’s a lucky girl. What I meant was I used to want to look good giving my guy head, not everyone looks good while giving head.

@hungryhungryhortence I’ll let you in on a little guy secret. When were getting head, our eyes are so cross eyed we can’t see much of anything. You could be wearing a halloween mask for all we know. You’d only freak us out when our breathing returned to normal. See, just the thought turns me into a lousy speller.

@Adirondackwannabe @hungryhungryhortence I have to agree. I’m pretty sure their eyes blur a significant amount.

Or you could just pick vision impaired guys and take their glasses off before you go down on them…

Before I read responses….

I love giving and receiving. 69 is one of my most favorite positions. I guess to get into detail as to why I like it. I love hearing her moan and quiver. While in 69 having her remove myself from her mouth to exhale in ecstasy is almost more of a turn on than actual intercourse. Plus the climax in my mouth is wonderful and to know she enjoyed every second of it is enthralling. I actually kind of have an oral fixation, a fetish so to speak. So, mouths just turn me on in general and mouths around genitalia is…... ohhh yea. Whooo, now I’m hot. Is it hot in here?

@Axemusica Yes, it is getting hot in here.. I’m a little flushed myself.

@chyna yea after reading the responses now. It’s really hot in here, lol.

@delirium & @casheroo can I see you two in my office please? lol ;)

@Axemusica I’m sorry, Sir. Did I do anything wrong? I am fairly sure I haven’t misbehaved too badly…

@delirium I’ll decide after you come to my office, just how badly you’ve been behaving. ;)

@Axemusica Or was that “cum” to your office?

@avvooooooo you’re welcome to cum in my office for a full evaluation as well.

gahh I’m the fluther Gigolo. lol

@Axemusica Nah, you’ve got a ways to go. Get a mentor!

@Axemusica as part 2 of the flagrant fluther flirts, I have to agree. You have quite a ways to go.

@delirium & @avvooooooo yea I’m still in the fresh waters and need a little more salt on the fluther side, but I’m well on my way to the deep end, haha.

@Axemusica With floaties.

<snort>

@Axemusica I’m sure you taste plenty salty, but if you need an impartial judge…

@delirium hmmm I’ll take it into consideration during your oral examination ;)

@Axemusica No number 2 pencil involved, hopefully.

@delirium lol these puns are getting ridiculous, lets just give each other head already, haha. ;P

[mod says] Ahem. Back to the actual question please. Does anyone remember what it was? ~

@augustlan haha, awwww ;P

Yea, Oral sex. It’s awesome!

I’m never looking at my glasses the same again.

Can be like a Well Balanced Meal- Salty/ Sweet and Addictive…

@delirium ... great answer… I am sure there is more firmness around just because of your answer

I like to give because I enjoy the excitement in creates for both of us. Her body’s movements in response to me are phenomenal. The other things that happen as she becomes more excited just are that much more of an encouragement for me. Great, great and great!

@chelseababyy how old are your friends?
I think it take a level of sexual maturity to enjoy oral sex.
Oral is great.

@chelseababyy I really agree with @delirium response. It is very empowering and to see someone get that much uncontrollable pleasure is amazing. The reason I would not want to do it is if he either didn’t recipricate or had nasty tasting spunk. There is nothing worse than nasty spunk.