What should I do in this unusual job interview situation?

Asked by Haleth (18947

) January 13th, 2010

I have an interview tomorrow for a job I really want. (Managing a small gourmet market.) I’ve done a ton of research on the company and practiced for the interview- I feel generally confident and well-prepared.

I just got an e-mail from my contact there asking if I could reschedule for the afternoon because he is going to the funeral of an old family friend in the morning. I’m generally really bad at comforting people during situations like this, never mind someone who I’m meeting for the first time during a job interview. I don’t know what the protocol is in a situation like this- I really want to appear professional, and I genuinely feel sympathetic for him. I’m also worried about how this will affect my interview. Help?

P.S. The response I sent him by e-mail is:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’d be glad to reschedule for 2pm. Thanks, and my sympathy,
Haleth

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I think your response sounds very appropriate. I wouldn’t sweat it.

AstroChuck (37666

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You were perfect. Showed professionalism and compassion all while letting them know it’s just fine to reschedule.

As far as the interview- if they bring up the funeral then say you’re sorry for their loss and leave it at that. Nothing further needed.

I’m crossing my fingers for you

gemiwing (14718

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I second @AstroChuck and @gemiwing ‘s answer. You should be fine.

Siren (3419

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Yeah only bring it up if they do. They most likely will considering it was the reason for rescheduling so be prepared to pass on condolences in person.

Hope you get it!

FishGutsDale (2038

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What you’ve already done is perfect. If it seems appropriate, those exact words can be used again, in person. Good luck on the interview!

augustlan (47745

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I agree with the above—your response so far is great, and there’s no need to bring it up yourself. In general, follow the lead of your interviewer. If he is visibly distraught, you could graciously offer to reschedule again. But for all you know, this was an old family friend who he never liked that much/wasn’t that close to/etc.

Oh yeah—good luck on your interview!!!!! Let us know how it goes!

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