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What does it mean when a guy stares right into your eyes?

Asked by lilikoi (10110points) January 18th, 2010

Marrakech’s question got me thinking. When a guy stares right into your eyes in a conversation, is this a way of flirting? It seems like it, but then I just figured some people like to make eye contact.

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HTDC's avatar

I think it means he’s listening and actually cares about what you’re saying.

nebule's avatar

hmmmm… I have no idea either… I was shopping in the supermarket a couple of weeks ago and this guy looked at me, straight into my eyes, I looked away… I looked back another two times and he was still staring at me…. it kinda scared me actually I wanted to run away… Nobody’s ever looked at me like that before… it was a nice kind of stare… I think… he was hot anyway!

judochop's avatar

It does not mean anything more than when he stares another man in the eye. You should look someone in the eye when speaking to them or attempting to make contact.
If someone is just flat out staring perhaps they are tired, stoned, crazy or just a little of all three.

jrpowell's avatar

I try to make eye contact when I talk to people. It shows that I care about what they say, even when I don’t. Same for males or females.

Axemusica's avatar

Eye contact is a good way of telling the other person that you’re also involved in the conversation and are really interested in what the other has to say. On the hand if you likes you, you’re going to need more detail. Is this a date? Has he said he or maybe a friend told you likes you? Just because someone makes contact doesn’t always mean, “Hey. How you doing?” ya know? Although, if you do know that there’s some sort of attraction, eye contact would mean that he’s digging you more than just a physical sense. It means he’s also interested in what’s in your mind, not only your clothes. ;)

Irishmar's avatar

I prefer eye contact, direct eyecontact when being spoken to. I would guess he’s checking you out, or just being polite enough to look you in th eye. Honest way to converse.

marinelife's avatar

I think it means that the guy is focusing on you.

Your_Majesty's avatar

He/she could judge your intention through your eyes,dilated pupils means you’re showing strong intention/attracted. This term is different for someone who love to flirt.

Utta_J's avatar

actully the proper way to talk to someone is to look them in the eyes and not wonder them around but if he gives you those google eyes o o….. thats something else <3

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

They’re looking for the remote in there…

Rarebear's avatar

It means he’s trying hard not to stare at your breasts.

flo's avatar

It depends on the circumstance. Any more detail?

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