First off, my main belief is that ratings should be a “guideline”, not a strictly enforced rule, and it should be up to parents to police what they are comfortable letting their kids be exposed to.
Second thing, I am not a fan of the current ratings system, because the MPAA is made up of this group of people with no specialized training in child psychology, linguistics or anything which would apply to making this type of decision, people who by and large don’t even have kids but many of whom are quite religious in nature, and they apply standards in an extremely arbitrary way. A film gets made and they will count how many times you said certain “foul” words, and use that to base the rating, they will actually send back notes that if you cut 2 fucks and a shit, you can get a PG-13 instead of an R. The biggest problem is that they allow extremely violent scenes into PG or even G rated movies, but show one nipple and it’s an R, if it’s a penis, make it an NC-17. Point is, it’s arbitrary, and it’s backwards. They are taking things that are natural, like the language people use, or the human body, and putting restrictions up to keep kids from seeing that, yet they’re allowing these same kids to see a depiction of someone getting mowed down by machine gun fire.
To be honest, I’d have less trouble with my 8 year old son seeing a movie with some bad language and brief nudity, than I’d have with him seeing most Disney movies. Every fucking Disney movie, they kill off one or both parents in the first five minutes, if they even had the parent(s) in the movie to begin with. Case in point:
Characters Missing Both Parents
* Aladdin (Aladdin)
* Lilo (Lilo and Stitch)
* Snow White and all seven of the Dwarves (who adopt her as a mother-figure) (Snow White and the Seven Dwarves)
* Cinderella (Cinderella)
* Quasimodo (The Hunchback of Notre-Dame)
* Esmerelda (The Hunchback of Notre-Dame)
* Mowgli (The Jungle Book)
* Peter Pan and the Lost Boys (who adopt Wendy as a mother-figure) (Peter Pan)
* Tarzan (Tarzan)
* Arthur (The Sword in the Stone)
* Tod (The Fox and the Hound)
Characters Missing One Parent
* Jasmine (Aladdin)
* Ariel (The Little Mermaid)
* Belle (Beauty and the Beast)
* Pocahontas (Pocahontas)
* Pinocchio (counting Geppetto as a ‘father’) (Pinocchio)
* Jane (Tarzan)
* Bambi (Bambi)
* Simba (The Lion King)
I say do away with ratings altogether, find categories of things that parents might find objectionable (depending on their parenting styles), and publish a list of code letters to the right of the film listings so parents will know if the is nudity, profanity, sex, death, etc. and whether the amount is light, moderate or heavy. In fact, you could expand that to many factors…penis, breast, vagina, male posterior, female posterior, consentual sex, gay sex, lesbian sex, rape, statutory rape, murder, suicide, other death…whatever categories people might differentiate, and rate each one on a 1–10 scale. Integrate it as part of the movie poster, so the parent can look at it and see, OK, profanity -7 , sex – 0, nudity – 2, violence – 1. Something like that…not saying I’ve got it all figured out, but make it more descriptive of the potentially objectionable content and let the parents decide, no need for ushers to check IDs.